I dumped him because he hurt me now i want him back because i love him what should i do?
I’m 20 and I love this 30 year old guy and i thought he loved me well he said he did, he neva called me during the week he only called on weekends so that we could go out and then go to his place to sleep and he would expect sex from me. I confronted him about this and told him i don’t want to be his boody call, well he didnt reply or say anything. He had a girlfriend i knew about her so i has to just deal with it. I dumped him because i hated what was happening and he ask me not to do that to him but i had to because i couldn’t stand being hurt anymore. So i called him after two days to ask him if he was okay but he told me he didn’t want to talk to me anymore because i hurt him, i told him he hurt me first by not concidering how i felt, he told me that its tit for tat i got back at him now i must leave him alone. I can’t do that i love him but i’ve also got a boyfriend that i love and he loves me to.But I can’t get over him. Please help me.
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As easy as it is to say it you need to stay away from him. If he was that inconsiderate toy ou and your feelings you dont want to be with him. It will take time to get over him but you are better off without a guy like that.Talk with your friends or family to help you get over him and move on with your life. You deserve to be happy and being with someone like that it not gonna make you happy. If he already had another girlfriend then he isnt gonna stay faithful to you. Hope things work out for you.
say:im sorry
wanna get back with me
and give him something he always wanted!!
man a toughy….give it a week..give him some space n u some space and see what happens talk to him then.
i think he was just using u for a booty call and thing is he did hurt u and he is a wimp and turned it all round on u like its ure fault. Think u need to get rid!! shnow him what he has lost
Steer well clear! He is a player who wants his cake and eat it! He is just playing mind games with you so leave him to it! If you truly love your boyfriend then stick by him!
hey gurl,
Why do you ask for advice when you know you are going to do what you want anyways? this is a seariouse question and not one to put you down. It is ture though you know you will get back with him and he will tell you one day he will leave his girlfriend so on and so on…. My advice though is, and you can take it or leave it, but you need to stay away from people who have girlfriends or wifes. if he loved you he would have left her… truth is he loves her more and is just using you for a quick easy lay. Why would you want to be with someone like this anyways, he is GOING TO DO THE SAME TO YOU! once a cheat always a cheat. take yourself out of the situation and really look at what your doing and how your thinking… and home girl it is probubly his WIFE not his GIRLFRIEND i meen come on hes 30…. your 20yr old you are being USED… but like i said your going to do what you want anyways because you think you LOVE him… anyways 30 thats disgusting find someone who is your age that you can grow up with not someone whos going to die when you 30.. or be 50 when your 30 thats just wrong…..i say all this out of the LOVE I HAVE FOR YOU as a woman and a person who does not deserve to be in this game he is playing… not to be a bitch i promise that is not my intention…. you will learn…. he doesnt love you , your just a piece of young a@@. e-mail me if you need to… tiana_pinheiro@yahoo.com
Okay…in a similar situation but only mine is married but seperated. My place seem to become the place… I asked him well how come we dont use your place as much as mine … his response was well, I m trying to prtoect you you see she still has a key and comes whenever for the sake of the kids…. although she does not live there she has a key!!!!!!!!!!!! Honey – whenever a man will restrict you and not explain that to you in the beginning they already had you planned as a recreation and not a priority for stability. In your twenties believe me…. You will get a good man if you are good to yourself. Emotions involved makes it difficult but you can get pasted it. Just think… he thinks NOTHING MORE OF YOU -lET GO
leave him alone! He is doing some serious damage to ur mental health! Not being funny but he is treating u like this because he thinks your stupid. Think about it.sounds like u should be away from men for a while to find yourself
Do not let a Man define hu u are. Leave his a$$ alone and build ur lfe up. u are worth 10 of him. Good luck x