How do I get my wife to love me again?
well… she is going through a 30-yr old mid-life crisis. she’s wanting to stay with friends all the time. even though we have a 3-yr old daughter.
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She is a grown up adult and a fairly mature woman.
If she is doing her part as a responsible mother, then it is not as grave a problem.
But in case she is not doing her bit, you need to list down objectively all that you want to talk about and one evening -just the two of you should discuss them one by one.
Most men also go through these crisis in life, the only difference between men and women are that women are simple creations of God and they can be taken for a ride. If you love her and still beleive that she has some love for you then all you have to do is let her take her time, but time and again keep reminding her that you love her by small gestures that she least expects.
Like when she gets back from her friends, she may find flowers left at home by you. Small reminders that there is someone who will stand by her for whatever she does, whenever she turns around -there is someone who will take her back at any cost.
The romance has to come back, however, in case you feel your softness is not making an improvement, then do pass across her the fact that you may not be able continue having to raise two children by yourself alone -specially the adult child.
If she loved you for something than it could be over, but if she loved you dearly enough to have a child with you -then she still loves you all you have to do is get that feeling back in her again -be the man whom she fell in love with and decided to have babies with.
I can imagine -most people find it strange, but you can actually fall in love with one person for your entire life.
make her convince and take her to her favorite plzce.and make her happey and tell her not to mistake u .
Go back to being the man she fell in love with.
If she is like my wife, why bother?
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Has she stopped loving you,(did she tell you this?)or has she closed herself off emotionally from you due to past/ongoing issues in the marriage? There is a difference. Also how long have you been married and at what age did you marry? People sometimes tend to change as they mature in age ie; what they want/need out of a partner, their views, etc. Are you sure she is unhappy with you specifically, perhaps there are other underlying issues she is having in her life outside of being your wife that have inadvertently affected the marriage. If you have good communication skills try talking with her as a friend, be patient, and LISTEN to her. Have you considered counselling? Good luck.
look,give her time it might be something that she is going thew that she did not do when she was younger trust me i know for a fact she haven,t forgot about you and your daughter if you want surprise her take out ,go dancing be more intrustead in her life and feelings.always trust in GOD