Is it wrong to get remarried if your ex changed for the better and there is a chance he wants you back?
He tells me he misses me but does not say he wants me back. He tells me how he is doing so well now with everything. I tried to work it out a couple times with him after we separated and divorced. I just don’t love him the way I use to. Did I just give up? Am I doing wrong to get married again? He was mean to me and this guy is a dream.
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I kind of feel sorry for the new guy. Here you are mooning over your ex when your mind should be 100% on your new guy. I think maybe you should take some time off and figure out what it is exactly that you want.
Good Luck
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You are divorced. Move on with your dreamboat.. and see if that one works out better for you.
the first problem i see in this is why the hell you are even talking to your ex?? get on with your life. you owe him nothing.
men dont change get over it
Girl let him go for good. If he was mean to you, then of course he’s gonna tell you that he’s sorry and he’s changed. They don’t change!!! Take your dream man and have a happy life. You deserve better than what the ex has to offer.
He will not change. Almost nobody ever changes.
Find a new person. First read the book.
The five love languages.
You will find that you never were compatible to your ex, and who you are, and what you need to feel loved. try it I assure you it is the best book I have ever read.
from experience, my husband was mentally abusive to me..and very controlling…we got divorced. later, i remarried him, but he didn’t really change. they do not change very often.
i remarried him, but realized it was all pretend on my part. i pretended to love him to my family and friends. i was miserable. when i sat back and realized he was the same and i was just pretending, i was tired of the pretending.
i divorced him. it just wasn’t going to work. i remember saying: i’d rather be alone and happy than married and miserable.
i’ve remarried to someone else now. i now can look back and see all the mistakes we made; and realize now that if we had God in our lives like we should have…our marriage probably would have survived.
please think long and hard about this before doing something you’ll regret later. when in doubt, don’t do anything……
good luck
In my opinion, if he’s an ex, there’s a reason for it. But if you’re not ready to let go of your ex and do get remarried, then it’ll only cause problems in your new marriage. So if you think you want to work it out with your ex, then go for it, either way, you may always wonder ‘what if’ So do what you think will make you happy and don’t look back. Good Luck!
Been there, still am> We remarried and also re-divorced. We are great friends apart, but we cannot be married. Dont understand why but it works.