How would you feel about sleeping in the same bed that your partner slept in with their ex wife/husband?
I just started to think about this…I’m "sleeping" in the same bed that my boyfriend slept in with his ex wife for years. Is this weird?
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I wouldn’t like it at all. I would need new sheets and a new mattress, bare minimum.
um yes thats weird and no i would not be sleeping in that bed
Interesting question. I would not be happy doing that at all, infact, i really couldn’t go anywhere near the bed let alone sleep in it. Demand a new bed!!!!
I’d light it on fire.
It would feel soo weird if I did that, I would want a whole new bed.
Based on how my husband’s ex is, I’d want it disinfected thoroughly before I even touched it.
that is weird bcause to think about it, they had had sex on it too..so yeah..throw it out and get a new one..!!!
It’s a piece of furniture – Who cares? It’s the relationship you have now that counts.
*I honestly don’t understand some of these responses. How can you be perfectly OK with the fact that your partner had sex with someone else, but you harbor ill feelings about the inanimate object on which they did it??
its a normal thought that would come to any ones mind if they are sane enough.. i think it would gross me out some way.
It happens. It happened with my new wife and ex-wife. When someone gets divorced or seperated, "buy a new mattress" really isn’t on top of their to-do list.
I know what your saying my ex husband lets his girlfriend sleep in the bed we had if it were me i would buy a new one.
have the sheets been changed?
As a girlfriend, not too weird. If you marry him, get a new bed then,
Think about other guys you have been with, would you have them replace their bed just because they slept with other girls in it?
It’s not cheap to replace good beds.
For heaven’s sake. It’s just a bed. Would you also not drive in the same car? Walk down the same street? Watch the same TV?
It’s just a thing. It doesn’t have anything at all to do with the relationship between two people. Relax.
i would feel dirty and not in a good way and i would feel not clean
no its just a bed.
An ex girlfriend of a few months wouldn’t be so horrible but an ex wife of years is beyond the line… just start saying you are having back problems every morning after you wake up and then one night just go sleep on the couch. The next morning tell him you guys should go look at new beds… IF you dont want to confront him about it.. If you don’t mind confronting him… do so right away
I would demand a new bed! That’s horrible! Good Luck = ]
I can see how it would freak some people out. I would probably get a mattress pad and some new sheets, though.
It’s just a damn bed.
Get over it.
Good Luck!
It’s just a bed.
Compared to the fact that he had sex with another the bed in nothing.
Just don’t think about all the times they did it on the kitchen table, then.
Everyone has a past, honey. There’s no sense rebuilding your life from scratch every time a relationship ends.
I would get a whole new bed. I wouldn’t be able to sleep or do anything else in it.
Buy a new bed, then. I wouldn’t really care.
We got rid of the bed my husband had with his x!
Nah, I think my wife banged a couple of guys in the bed that we sleep in before we were married.
I wouldn’t care I guess because I am a man. I would just ask if we could order a new bed if you don’t like the situation.
Make sure you have new sheets! Not weird; frugal! I know 2 women who are second wives, living in the house their hubby picked out with his first wife.
Who slept in the bed before me wouldn’t matter unless they died and were left in for days. I’m not sure why you feel weird. You’re a girlfriend not a wife. Why would there be a need to buy a new bed and why wouldn’t you be the one to offer to buy the new bed, since you’re the one with the problem?
If you guys were moving from one place to another together, then I’d fully see your point. But I don’t even see how you vote counts at this point.
no its not…get a new bed !
I dont think I could do that.I would either go get a new bed or just quit thinking about it so much.cause if you really think about it who else has slept on that bed?
I’d have serious issue wit it.
gtet over it spoz
Think of it this way. How expensive is it to replace a bed set because you feel the bed has better memories of the past, than thinking how many new memories you can make on this bed in the future.
i could care less, its just a bed. Just get new sheets and spray that bt!ch down with lysol if it bothers you that bad
very weird get a new bed.
OH – HELL no! No chance at all!! Everything must start fresh! That is just not right!