How do I fall in love again?
My girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me a while ago, I loved her with all my heart and soul, I’m 100% over her now, and I’ve tried going on a few dates here and there but I’m too afraid to fall in love again. It has been so long since my ex broke up with me, how do I fall in love again?
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You are not the first or the last to be in a situation like yours. You loved your girl friend very much 100% and you were hurt by her and this will take a very long time to get over. Even when you think you have gotten over it some thing do come around the corner to remind you of how wrong you are.
It will take a lot of will power and determination to get over this situation. To my best judgment you did put a sort of " GREAT WALL OF CHINA" as a way to protect you and your feelings from getting hurt by women in the future, or like some Computer Fire Wall to say the least.
It will take some time for you to after all the that time to trust women and you have every right to be cautious of women or relationships. The trick is how to balance the two and get to a point that is acceptable. It will take a lot of time and dedication on your part to reach that goal. T
you can’t force yourself to fall in love. when the right person comes along, it’ll happen.
close your eyes and sprinkle fairy dust on your head and you’ll fall in love
my bf was with a girl for three years before me then she cheated on him and left him for another man. He eventually found me , and has told me hes more in love with me after a year then he was with his previous gf after 3 years:) the right girl is out there for you, dont let one girl ruin it for you
i guess you just have to wait until you meet someone who just seems completely wonderful in every way….
and shopping around at random might not be the best idea
put some thought into your dates…
….see where that gets you
and good luck!
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Does anyone really know "how to fall in love"? It just happens….mostly it happens when you aren’t looking for it.
dont rush things, when you stop looking ; it finds you
SIMPLY… Dont! if your not ready to fall in love and you make yourself do it, then you’ll eventually realize your with someone you dont actually truly "love" its hard to get over an ex, but everything happens for a reason, im a firm believer of that. let fate decide on your next lover, she will come to you it just takes time. Dont put pressure on yourself to fall in love, thats stupid and you’ll end up in another hole you cant get out of. Just keep doing your normal routines and live life to the fullest! things will work out.
love is very unexpected. when u think there is no chance someone will find you and when it does u wont even think about "how do i find love" be patient it will come.
Don’t rush into it when it happens let it, you would know when you fall in love again good luck.
you can’t fall in love forcefully. if you aren’t trying too hard to look for love, it will find its way to you. and if you like the new girl that much, you won’t be scared to fall in love with her because love it great. just think of it this way, your heart was broken to make you stronger for the next girl you fall in love with. im sure you will find so many great people when you least expect it.
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Give yourself no pressure. It will come just enjoy life
take things slowly with the person your into. You will find a nice girl and it will happen naturally. Just remember to take it nice and slow and make her aware of it.
I was in the same postion five months ago. Good luck. xx
it sucks but its true what everyone else is saying, it truely finds you when you least expect it.
hope all goes well on your many journeys
my love i had found when i was half-way committed to another boy actually.. strange and not very ethical sounding but it was legit, youll just have to trust me
anyways point is, get out there and live your life! and love will find you!