how do i convince my ex to get back with me?
We have a 2yr old, and got divorced last year. We have been through he** and back together since ’06 and this time she is saying that she is done with me..now she tells me to prove to her i wont leave again and how much i want her, then we will see, but she wont tell me what to do to prove this. She told me im smart, so figure it out. I found a ring i am going to buy her friday, but dont know how to prove this or romantically ask her. Help!
i want to change those things, but how will it even do anything if we arent together?
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Actions speak louder than words. Start acting like a Man, it has nothing to do with getting her a ring. Start doing things working, taking care of her and the child you both created. Do things to help her and your son. Put them on a Pedestal, look towards the future of building a safe and happy home together. You need to be there for both of them emotional and financial.
shes done with you. shes pulling your chain while shes out having fun with another guy or girl, or a guy and a girl or 2 guys and a girl or maybe 2 girls and a guy anyway,, shes trying to control you, find u another babe in wonderland and give her the ring instead, good luck on your quest and when u find the holy grail let us know..
She wants you to fight for her. She wouldn’t say that unless she meant it. You need to prove to her you love her. If shes mean to you, dont be mean back… just always be kind and loving and show her you are CHOOSING to love her.
I would hold off on buying that ring! You state you’ve been through hell and back for 3 years and you want to go back for more? There’s a reason why people from your past don’t make it to your future. I think you need to put your focus on being a good father to your child and work on developing a good, friendly relationship with your ex so that your child won’t grow up seeing his/her parents in constant conflict. Sometimes loving someone just isn’t enough to make a relationship work. If you went back with her, it might go smoothly for a few weeks or months, but it would soon return to the state things were when you decided to divorce.
She is being a bit confusing by stating she is done with you and then telling you to prove you won’t leave again! That’s giving you false hope.
I think you should take everything you’ve learned from the mistakes you made in this relationship so you don’t make the same mistakes in your next relationship…….but as far as this situation goes??? I think you seriously need to accept that the marriage is over.
Prove it with your actions. What were her complaints about you? If you had affairs, be prepared to never let her distrust you again… no flirting, no other women at all. If she thought you drank too much, can you stop drinking completely? Not a drop. If you had anger problems are you willing to go to counseling? Whatever her complaints were, you need to fix those specific things. Anyone can buy a ring, that’s not what she wants, she wants to see a changed person who will be dependable.
Best of luck to both of you.
fine there is nothing wrong in you buying ring. But the actual solution is for you to do a self examination and self improvement.Reflect on what lead to your divorce in the first place and when doing this you have to be sincere with your self. If you discover areas you have gone wrong. It is now left for you to find ways to improve on those areas, this is where self improvement comes into play.
Also sometime the cause might just be that your relationship or marriage is boring, you have to look for ways to spice it up like taking her on a date frequently, having an intimate communication with her always.
Now, if your ex comes back he will find out you are a changed man. Good luck