How do i get my ex girlfriend to fall in love with me again?
i was dating a girl for four months and after about 3 and a half i was unsure about the relationship. after a one day break SHE broke up with ME. I realized how much life sucked without her, and did everything i could and got her back. We were together for 2 weeks before i found out she had been talking to another guy behind my back. This was the second time she had been talking to him. i tried talking to her about it and she didnt want to hear it, so she called me after school and broke up with me. i was devastated. i tried a couple more times to rekindle the love by pouring my heart out to her. we were friends for a little while after this, but then i got into a fight with the guy she had been talking to. because of this she was not talking to me. i made up with her again and now we are on speaking terms. i guess the thing is that this girl is my first love, and i am still in love with her. although i know she likes someone else, i am in love with her. what can i do?
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you can’t force someone to love you and if you try, they will want their freedom even more. i would recommend that you focus on being a good friend to her for now. be very kind and respectful and treat her good. enjoy your own life, spend time with your friends, work out and make yourself a better person. a lot of times when someone sees that you are taking good care of yourself and not trying to smother them, they love you even more. if it doesnt happen, it is not meant, but you will be happy again and find love again – there are lots of girls that want to be loved in this world. good luck to you.
YOU DON’T YOU HAVE TO FORCE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Dude, its time to move on.
She has and you are chasing the past.
your life doesnt suck without her, Its just you lack confidence about yourself. Look in the mirror be the man that you are and just go get the lady thats all. If she declines then you say NEXT!!!
Dont cry over losing one fish when there are so many in the ocean
obviously she don’t love you! so why waste your time, or hers for that matter? there are plenty of fish in the sea!!
I swear- there should be a whole category in here for ex’s.
They are your EX’s for a reason!
Well let me tell you one thing communication is key ok so talk to her do something nice for her but DON’T beg her to take you back oh wait and frist before she if she is with the guy that she likes and if she does take you back see if anything strange is going on with her to see if she is dating someone else but please if this doesn’t work out don’t blame me or i will be really sad thank you i will pray for you god bless
You need to figure out how to deal with the fact that its over. Life has plenty of little dissapointing turns and dealing with the dissapointment well is a skill you’re going to have to learn.
Ok, read this cause it could save you. I’ve been there and I see you are probably about to make the same mistakes I did. I want you to keep some things in mind here. She is NOT the only girl out there. I say this because a girl I once thought I oved did the same thing to me. I begged her and pleaded with her to give me one more chance. She’d take me back and break up with me over and over. To this day she swears she still loves me yet she’s married with child. I thought she was the only one that could make me happy in life until a month ago. Now I have met another girl even better than the first one and she treats me great. the point is that love is blind and that you should guard yourself against falling too hard too fast for any girl. Next time a girl breaks up with you TAKE IT FROM ME… the two most powerful phrases to respond with are: "I understand" and "enjoy your life, goodbye". After saying only these phrases, turn around and walk away. Do not look back, do not question her decision. She has made up her mind and if you want any chance at all of her deciding on her own to come back you will let her know that it is ok to leave you becaus you aren’t going to freak out about it. A woman is like a wild bird. if you cage it and keep it caged it will try to escape every chance it gets. but if you leave the door open with something they desire inside they will come to you. Essentially they need to feel free and secure at the same time. so let her leave as she pleases and if she comes back to you and you’ve moved on to someone better, then too bad for her. and good for you. you win either way and this way you regain control of your romantic life. Don’t waist time on some-one that has realized that you are not the one for them. I hope this advice helped. Good luck.
if she was dumb enough to dump you then she does not deserve the love that you can suppy her so dont get her to love you again