How did you feel when you started trying to conceive and then you didn’t get pregnant as soon as you planned?
How did you feel when you started trying to conceive and then you didn’t get pregnant as soon as you planned? I feel a little down, but I am trying to remain positive since January was our first month actually trying to conceive. Anyone out there going thru what I am going thru? If so, please share your stories so I can know that I am not alone.
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I was surprised at how down I was, especially because I know logically (and biologically) the odds are against conceiving straight away. It’s weird. We started trying in Dec. AND worse – this month, I O’d a few days earlier than I expected (yesterday) and my hubby has been out of town for a week! He comes home tomorrow. So we’re out this month for sure too.
I think I was more upset about having NO chance this month than getting a BFN after trying.
Hang in there, there are loads more couples who have been trying a lot longer than we have. Just enjoy your time together before you start in with the morning sickness, LOL!
Everyone I think feels disapointed every cycle it doesn’t happen, On the other hand, very few people conceive on their very first try, there is truly just a lot of luck involved-good luck and baby dust to you.
This is month 8 for me…
i wasn’t disappointed right away. The first time i was super disappointed was last month. only 25% of women get pregnant within the first 3 months of trying so you are DEF. not alone!
It was HARD. We started TTC our second at the end of February last year and it took us 10 months of trying before I finally was pregnant(am now 7 1/2 weeks along). During that course 6 of our friends became pregnant and it was just devastating getting those calls. I tried to be happy for them, of course, but inside I was heartbroken and kept wondering why it wasn’t happening for us.
Then last month(December) I got a more positive attitude about it. If it happened, it happened, and I was going to go back to enjoying my husband instead of making sex out to be a chore. January 4th I got my BFP and I was so grateful and thankful. Don’t worry and keep your head up. It WILL happen, maybe not on your time but your time will come.
It is so hard to think about that. Before i got married, all i ever wanted was a baby. Now its almost one year for us and it still nothing. I almost gave up, but i know there is hope for me. Now i just enjoy sex and not thinking to hard to have a baby, because its so stressful. So dont worry you are not alone.
Good luck to you and me..
I know, it seems like it shouldn’t be as devastating as it is, right? I always find the week my period is due to be extremely stressful and my emotions are all over the place. First, you are so not alone, but I know how you feel because I feel the exact same way! You only get about 12 chances a year. Every two weeks we can either try to make the baby, or test for pregnancy. It’s awful. Try to stay busy if you can, so it keeps your mind off of it. Best of luck I totally feel your pain…
I know how you feel.. I am trying since November no luck yet. And i am getting news from all my cousins and friends being pregnant. This is making me more desperate to have a baby…. Don’t worry it will happen whenever it’s meant to happen. Wish you all very best luck. The more you think the more it delays they say.. so try to be happy and positive that will increase more chances of conceiving. Wish you all the best.