I want my ex back. We’re good friends. Any tips?
Hello everyone. I’ve been thinking about this so much, and I need more opinions.
I want my ex back. We’re good friends. Any tips?
My ex and I broke up in May, but when I started school again in August, we started hanging out again, going to dinner and stuff (and having sex).
Problem is, I want to date him again. I’m sick of crying and I need for this to change. A friend suggested that I ignore him for a while so he’ll miss me, and also to withhold sex. I had already thought of that, but the fact that it was reiterated made it better.
We still have feelings for each other. I think ignoring him for a while will help him see that I don’t depend on him emotionally or “need” him, and he’ll think there’s something wrong and want to date again. I miss him and I want him back.
I know there are people out there who have been in this situation, what do you think I should do?
All tips you can think of are appreciated. Please be detailed!
Thanks.
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(I get the picture)…I’ve had this problem before but ignoring him for awhile will do the trick…but don’t over do it…Here’s a good trick that worked in my situation…When you both are going to have sex you should stop and "no,I can’t" when he asks "why?" say "Every time I find myself doing you I think about why we broke up and it makes it hard for me to get over you…even though I don’t want to…" See what’s his response…in my situation he admitted to having feelings for me and wanted to give it another chance…
Oh sweetie, so many of us fall for these kind of jerks, the truth is he is using you for sex, nothing more. You will have no hope of getting him to care for you or want you as a girlfriend if you are giving it out for free. Stop sleeping with him, its the best solution. It will be hard at first but trust me if he really cares he will accept you as a girlfriend.
Ignore him for a few weeks, then start talking to him again. Do not go out to dinner, movie, sex, etc. Just be on speaking terms with him so he can realize that you are not depending on him. Then slowly start doing the things you used to do together and see what he says and does that changes.
I’m with EW, if you’re giving him sex you’re playing right into his hands because that’s exactly what he wants. The problem is that although your doing it just so you can keep him there is no guarantee that he won’t move on if he finds someone new.
Sex should be part of a loving relationship on both sides, and at the moment it looks like it’s all one sided. Personally I think you can do better and the longer you hold onto this guy the longer it will take to find the one who will love you the way you deserve.
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