Comments on: Husband filed for divorce but has not taken the steps to try and finish it. I’m still in love…help!? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/4392/husband-filed-for-divorce-but-has-not-taken-the-steps-to-try-and-finish-it-im-still-in-love-help/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Yooper chick http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/4392/husband-filed-for-divorce-but-has-not-taken-the-steps-to-try-and-finish-it-im-still-in-love-help/comment-page-1/#comment-29770 Yooper chick Wed, 03 Feb 2010 07:12:09 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/4392/husband-filed-for-divorce-but-has-not-taken-the-steps-to-try-and-finish-it-im-still-in-love-help/#comment-29770 Your Pastor told you to get a divorce? Wow. I say fight. Fight for your marriage. I have known people that were separated a year and got back together and have been happily married for over 10 years now. Talk to him. What do you have to lose? You are already losing him. I recommend reading the journal Love Dare. It is something I def think you both might want to look at and do. I wouldn't give up. You need to pray about it. Talk to him. Maybe get a new Pastor. Any pastor that tells you to get your divorce is not of God. God bless you and your marriage. Please contact me if you want to talk. Your Pastor told you to get a divorce? Wow. I say fight. Fight for your marriage. I have known people that were separated a year and got back together and have been happily married for over 10 years now.

Talk to him. What do you have to lose? You are already losing him.

I recommend reading the journal Love Dare. It is something I def think you both might want to look at and do.

I wouldn’t give up. You need to pray about it. Talk to him. Maybe get a new Pastor. Any pastor that tells you to get your divorce is not of God.

God bless you and your marriage. Please contact me if you want to talk.

]]> By: ladyren http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/4392/husband-filed-for-divorce-but-has-not-taken-the-steps-to-try-and-finish-it-im-still-in-love-help/comment-page-1/#comment-29771 ladyren Wed, 03 Feb 2010 07:12:09 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/4392/husband-filed-for-divorce-but-has-not-taken-the-steps-to-try-and-finish-it-im-still-in-love-help/#comment-29771 Three years is a loooooooooooooong time to remain in limbo, sweetie. Get the divorce, and get on with your life. Three years is a loooooooooooooong time to remain in limbo, sweetie.

Get the divorce, and get on with your life.

]]> By: cococlothes1 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/4392/husband-filed-for-divorce-but-has-not-taken-the-steps-to-try-and-finish-it-im-still-in-love-help/comment-page-1/#comment-29772 cococlothes1 Wed, 03 Feb 2010 07:12:09 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/4392/husband-filed-for-divorce-but-has-not-taken-the-steps-to-try-and-finish-it-im-still-in-love-help/#comment-29772 I think that you should just move on. He filed for divorce for a reason and you shouldn't hold on to something that wont work out for you in the long run. You deserve someone you can trust to not break your heart, You should start dating again and going out and having fun. Do things that you would never do when you were with him. Free yourself. You deserve someone who wont hurt you. I think that you should just move on. He filed for divorce for a reason and you shouldn’t hold on to something that wont work out for you in the long run. You deserve someone you can trust to not break your heart, You should start dating again and going out and having fun. Do things that you would never do when you were with him. Free yourself. You deserve someone who wont hurt you.

]]> By: dpeachie http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/4392/husband-filed-for-divorce-but-has-not-taken-the-steps-to-try-and-finish-it-im-still-in-love-help/comment-page-1/#comment-29773 dpeachie Wed, 03 Feb 2010 07:12:09 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/4392/husband-filed-for-divorce-but-has-not-taken-the-steps-to-try-and-finish-it-im-still-in-love-help/#comment-29773 First of all I'm surprised that your Pastor (A man of the Cloth) would advise you to get divorced. On the other hand as I read on and realized you two haven't seen each other in three years, it's time to move on. He obviously has. I would tell him that you really don't want the divorce and would like to try to work things out, and if he says that's not what he wants. Tell him ok, but one those papers are final there's no turning back. Time to move on. You'll find someone eventually that will want to be with you and love you and you'll have back in your life what you've been missing. First of all I’m surprised that your Pastor (A man of the Cloth) would advise you to get divorced. On the other hand as I read on and realized you two haven’t seen each other in three years, it’s time to move on. He obviously has. I would tell him that you really don’t want the divorce and would like to try to work things out, and if he says that’s not what he wants. Tell him ok, but one those papers are final there’s no turning back. Time to move on. You’ll find someone eventually that will want to be with you and love you and you’ll have back in your life what you’ve been missing.

]]> By: terri http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/4392/husband-filed-for-divorce-but-has-not-taken-the-steps-to-try-and-finish-it-im-still-in-love-help/comment-page-1/#comment-29774 terri Wed, 03 Feb 2010 07:12:09 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/4392/husband-filed-for-divorce-but-has-not-taken-the-steps-to-try-and-finish-it-im-still-in-love-help/#comment-29774 Tell him how you feel and that you're willing to give it another go.If he's willing to try,give it all you've got to make it happen.If he's unwilling to try,by all means do everything in your power to speed up the divorce process. Tell him how you feel and that you’re willing to give it another go.If he’s willing to try,give it all you’ve got to make it happen.If he’s unwilling to try,by all means do everything in your power to speed up the divorce process.

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