Why do guys comm so fast? How do girls get an orgasm fast and keep it for a long time?
Me and my boyfriend are sexually active, but he comms way too fast and quits before i can even have a chance to get a tip of an orgasm. How do I get him to slow down and stop letting him comm so fast? And how do I get an orgasm fast enough before he comms and keep it for a really long time?
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Make him wear a condom. It will slow the process down, from his point of view.
Well, he has to learn to slow down. Pace himself and be aware of his tipping point.
If push comes to shove, so to speak, you can turn to climax control products such as lubricants and condoms that should slow things down.
For you, you may have to help speedy find your G-spot.
well, I’ve heard it said the average guy takes 2-3 min to orgasm, whereas the average woman takes about 15 min to orgasm. You guys just need to set up a deal where he tells you he’s about to orgasm so you can slow down, or he has to be nice and focus on you for a bit so you can orgasm too
. Sex is not about each person trying to get as much satisfaction for themselves as they can, it’s about seeing how much pleasure you can give to the other person. Oral sex is a great way to stimulate a woman and bring her closer to orgasm, so talk to your boyfriend about that and see what happens.
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All in all, I think the best thing you can do is just talk to him. Tell him about your frustrations, and ask him if he has any idea how this can be fixed. I’m pretty sure his ego won’t let you go unsatisfied on his watch
well things like condoms and lube help to desensitize things a bit for him..foreplay! get yourself really in the mood first, half of the path to an orgasm is mental so the more you get ready the faster it’ll happen
fool around for a bit first this should help things a bit
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Duration is one of the great challenges for many young men. I like to say that when we are young, the male is wound so tight he climaxes almost instantly; the female is so tight she takes for ever to relax enough to climax. It seems the way the two systems are built. The average amount of time spent during sex will vary widely depending on who you believe, even among credible sources. Some research cites a length of time between 3 and 10 minutes, others are anywhere from 15 minutes to an hour, and then there are those who claim the time frame is much lower, at around 2 minutes. The difficulty in getting consistent information is that the time interval is not always clearly defined (e.g. does foreplay count?), or that people have trouble remembering or being objective about just how long things took. Plus, a societal average may not necessarily mean that much in the end, even if it could be determined. Couples have different preferences that work for them, and moods and circumstances may allow for more or less time depending on the occasion. Although premature ejaculation is thought to affect up to a third of men under the age of 25, it usually goes away with time, experience, and achieving a level of comfort with sex and your partner. To help prolong sex try slowing down the pace, experimenting with different positions and taking deep, relaxed breaths. Then there are the exercises for the pelvic floor muscles that are mentioned in several answers: the same muscle you use to stop peeing can be exercised to give you greater control. Focus on extending foreplay through kissing and massage, which can excite your partner without intercourse. Contrary to persistent myths, masturbation is not a cause of premature ejaculation. In fact, it’s the other way around: masturbating a few hours before sex is a good way to prolong ejaculation later on. The real causes of premature ejaculation are often fear and anxiety about sexual performance. Ironically, this stems from the belief that says men should be able have sex endlessly. Pure feats of endurance have little to do with sex itself, and most women do not find such behavior alluring anyway. After all, that’s why sport has given us the extreme marathon, the cricket match and televised golf.
For me the best thing I could do when I was young was the ladies first principle: make sure my partner had a orgasm before I came usually by way of the second principle "ICS" or it’s the Clitoris, Stupid. In addition, if I really thought I was going to get lucky on a date, then I might masturbate before leaving so as to last la little longer that way. Condoms also helped me last longer as well as their other benefit: I liked the natural lamb skin for feeling but they are expensive. At about thirty five more or less it seems the sexes meet: the male can last long enough for the woman to climax and the woman can climax within a reasonable time. As I have gotten older, I note I can out last the female. That is, for the male duration increases with age. One for the oldsters.
I’m a guy and I don’t have that problem with my girlfriend. It takes me about 10-15 mintues to cum during sex. She actuly has it better then me because her orgasms typically last 20-30 seconds each and she almost always has multiples, an average of 4 orgasms per session, she is in pure ectasy, like non-stop share pleasure for 2 minutes strait, Compared to me, I always only have one orgasm that last about 5 seconds!. So jelous. But on the other hand their the the ones that have monthly periods and have the babies, so I think they deserve more pleasure.
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