So, I have told me husband I want a divorce, but he keeps asking me to have _ex with him. Make it stop!?
I have to let him live int he basement for a month due to his custody agreement with his ex. It is my house. He has told me he thinks I am still in love with him and asked if we could hook up still after we sign the agreement. I have told him no way, no how. He then asked if we could do it just one more time last night. I mean, come on…leave me alone. What do I say to make him stop. I have really been very mean and have sent no mixed signals.
The lawyer said I can get a Court order to have him removed but it will take longer than the 30 days I gave him so I will have to deal with it. If he gets violent then I can call the police, but he won’t do that.
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Just say NO! Tell him if he doesn’t stop, custody agreement with his ex or not, he’s out on his a$$. After all YOU are not bound by his custody agreement.
If he keeps it up, tell him you are calling the police to have him escorted out, then file for a protective order. He’s harassing you, and that is illegal, even if you are still married.
Just my thoughts
he is delusional, just be firm with him! Maybe you can stay away from home lots? Have friends over so you are not alone with him?
You need to kick him out.
Tell him if he ever comes on to you again then that will be it. He is out on his own! I don’t know what the thing is about guys and sex but it can get really annoying!
As long as he is in the house with you -
He will always want to have sex !
give him his marching orders bye bye
You DON’T have to let him live in the basement. You are choosing to let him live there. His custody agreement is nothing to do with you.
Tell him to back off or he’s out, and mean it.
I don’t understand why he HAS to stay with you. He may have to stay in the same city due to his custody arrangement with the ex but I doubt he has to stay under your roof if you truly don’t want him there. Tell him he either stops bothering you or he can pack up and leave today.
nothing just say nothing hell get the picture…
Just say no. Remind him that you are allowing him to stay in your home. If he can’t respect boundaries then he can find another place to reside.
He has issues, no matter what you say or do, he is going to keep trying. be patient and wait for him to leave, or…..you can bring another man in the picture. To avoid drama though, tell him. It is simple, just tell him, look, I have someone else and I do not want to cheat on him. Now I am not saying bring in a man physically, he might get stupid. Just tell him. If he questions you, tell him that he respects you and knows the deal and trust you until you get this mess fixed. If that does not work, he is off his rocker, and can not find anyone else, and is desperate.
Just give in. Use protection. Like a samari sword.
So you are an adult and you think sex is a bad word?
tell him you have a std….he will leave you alone for sure! lol
If he tries to have sex with you and you say no call the cops or report him when he’s not around so nothing worse happens. Just do what is best for you. You don’t by law have to keep him in your home. You have the right to kick him out.
Sorry that you have to have him around. But since he still is for now, you need to look him straight in the eye and tell him "If we have sex, it will be classified as rape on your part and the police will be called immediately!"
That should put him down for the count.
If you really want to hurt him, tell him, "No, because the next time I have sex, I want it to be good."
Tell him if he asks you again he needs to leave.
I hope he brings home a bar tart and knocks it out in the basement!
He really needs to move out. Until then try not to be alone with him whenever possible. Invite friends or family around to visit. Keep active. If he’s still unwilling to accept your answer, just put a lock on your bedroom door – that should give him a subtle enough hint. Be persistent. NO means NO. Don’t give him any false hope.
I agree with scot. He is harassing you. Tell him he sucked in bed anyways so why would you bother.
I don’t agree with the crying rape thing. Women that cry rape dilutes the valid claim of actual victims.
You are so full of it. There is no custody agreement that he could have with his ex that could possibly force you to allow him to live in your house. Tell him to pack his stuff and move out. You don’t have to put up with being sexually harassed in your own home.