How to get over my ex?
Okay,my ex broke up with me about 6 months ago and I still am not over it. We went out for 2 years and were very close. I’m still not quite sure what the cause of the break up was. He just said he wasn’t in for a relationship at the time. Well we started talking again and were pretty much friends with benefits for a couple of months. (i know wasn’t a good choice) A few days ago my dad was put in the hospital and I was at school.
I tried calling him (which I never did) and he didn’t answer. I told him I needed someone to talk to because he knew me the best. Long story short he never called back. So I sent him a really bad email telling him that I wanted nothing to do with him because the one time I needed him as a friend he wasn’t there. I understand that it was a jerk move but I still can’t get him out of my head. I want to email him again but I know I shouldn’t. He put pictures up online of him which he never does so I’m guessing he may be involved with another girl. Am I reading too much into that? Thanks in advance.
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getting over an ex can be very hard to do especially when you did nothing wrong. you had a right to yell at him considering there was a time you needed not a boyfriend but just a friend to talk to to assure you everything was gonna be ok ad he did not meet that. I believe that becoming friends with benefits made it also hard for you to let go. It help to think positive such as "at least he was mine for a while" or "if it was meant to be it would have lasted" or "at least he’s happy"……It also helps to listen to some songs either about getting over a break up or even song about breakups in general if that doesn’t help then listen to happy songs about life…..don’t worry you will feel better in time…..hope this helps
well you go out find new friend haha
He Probably has moved on….it was a badd choice to send that e.mail but everyone makes mistakes…since he has moved on maybe you should to its badd to hold on to the past so just think of i like this everything happens for a reason
It’s normal for your ex not to answer your calls because as you said, you’re now just friends.
I strongly recommend that you seek counseling to get over your problem. If you’re living in the U.S.A., please click the link below:
http://www.servicescounseling.info/
If you’re from the PHILIPPINES, the link below shows a list of hospitals all over the country. Then look for a psychologist (or if there’s no psychologist, try a psychiatrist) there:
LIST OF HOSPITALS IN THE PHILIPPINES:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_hospitals_in_the_Philippines
If you’re living in METRO MANILA, you may seek counseling from any of these sites:
COUNSELING SERVICES IN METRO MANILA:
http://ph.88db.com/Personal-Home-Services/Counseling-Self-Help/ad-485951/ (free)
http://ph.88db.com/Personal-Home-Services/Counseling-Self-Help/ad-111831/
http://ph.88db.com/Personal-Home-Services/Counseling-Self-Help/ad-273854/
http://ph.88db.com/Personal-Home-Services/Counseling-Self-Help/ad-255893/
I think that if you are in a relationship with someone for 2 years and then all of a sudden he isn’t into it for the relationship that something is wrong. Maybe it was too soon for you guys to start talking again and you were too vulnerable at the time but he didn’t know it and thought you were fine. Obviously he should know how much he means to you after being in a 2 year long relationship, even if its just as a friend now (or even a friend with benefits). I don’t think you were out of line sending him the e-mail. He is important to you and you thought you could depend on him but obviously he didn’t think the same on his end. I wouldn’t read into the pictures online too much, that could be anything. Try to give yourself some time away from him and maybe that will help. I know how hard it is, I’ve been there. But maybe try spending some time out with the girls or something to keep your mind off of him.