Comments on: What do i need to do to get my wife to want me again?

By: ricardoaz2003

ricardoaz2003 — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 06:33:16 +0000

get a job and start paying some bills around the house .. that will make her hot

By: bright_eyes_4_ri

bright_eyes_4_ri — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 06:33:16 +0000

Have you tried to be romantic without the intent of having sex? Try that and if it doesnt work then maybe try therapy since talking directly to her isnt working.

By: RACHAEL R

RACHAEL R — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 06:33:16 +0000

it sounds like this may have to do more with her hormones or medication she may be taking that is lowering her sex drive.

By: alfawolfette10

alfawolfette10 — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 06:33:16 +0000

With her focus on the kids and all at this stage of your lives, it’s pretty normal to cut back. You need to give her compliments, tease her during the day and plan a weekend away here & there. Find some sexy lingerie for her, toys, whatever it takes. Find out what turns her on, if the kids are gone, go after her and ravish her sometime and see if she likes it (consider her general mood at that point). Maybe the way you touch her is turning her off, check her body language when you make love and be sensitive to her needs, foreplay, etc. Some women don’t feel sexy when the kids are in the next room making noise, crying or whatever. Sometimes a peaceful cabin or resort might do the trick and don’t stop trying. Treat her to a housekeeper once a month and take advantage of that evening since she won’t be so tired. Take the kids to grandma’s overnight. Be sure you’re in shape, have good hygiene and do things to keep yourself attractive as well. Inquire more about her interests outside of the family to stimulate her intellectually if she’s into that. No one likes anyone that never learns anything new or doesn’t have opinions about the world at large. If none of that works-consider she may have some built-up resentment you’re not aware of – start listening carefully. Flowers and gifts won’t work if there are serious resentments. Then use counseling if you’re getting no where. Marriage is work/commitment too. Good thing you care to improve it, and she will have to contribute as much of the effort as well.

By: I dunno wad to do..

I dunno wad to do.. — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 06:33:16 +0000

Hmm u really should talk to her about this, else u might end up having an affair to satisfy your sexual needs. What does she like? Maybe u 2 need soemthing new to spice up your sex life, or try n remember what u did to turn her on in the past, or how u wooed her n set the mood for sex. Relive those memories. Or mayb she could just b plain tired, try and find a day when her workload is not so stressful.