How do I get my ex girlfriend back that I broke up with?
ok so i broke up with her on the 15th, broke her heart. i was upset too but i was going through ALOT of emotional stress, college, parents annoucement of a divorce, and other minor things like christmas and that had taken its toll on my mind along with her mother that is single and both of us agree she is a *****. i told her i would not be coming back and i was interested in other people. but i found myself missing her and i love her and it was utterly stupid to break up over that stuff. now i went to her house the 31st told her this and she has been talking to a guy since the 25 or so. she told me she cares about me and if i had come back b4 that guy we would be dating again and the only reason she is talking to him is cuzz he treats her like i did- that came out of her mouth. we hugged and cried together and i wanted her back but she said she just cant do it, it was a taste of my own medicine, i asked if she loved me and she said yes. but she obviously likes this other guy. and said she didnt like her heart broken and she wouldnt break her friends heart. she waid she didnt even espect them to last long and we would be bestfriends and see what happens. i am so confused to say the least. please help me. i need advice! i want to just wait it out to show her i care and not really talk to her but i find myself wanting to txt her now, but i just dont know what to do… she has txted me atleast once a day the past 4 days, she said goodnight on 2 of those days. also we dated for a year before we broke up and have done almost everything together as a couple and she is a real close friend with my sister. does this help my chances? what do i need to do to get her back in my life?
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Well, it sounds like she is willing to still be in your life. She loves you, so that’s a good sign. I know you are hurting so perhaps its best that you keep your distance for many reasons: 1) the more you see her/talk to her, the more you are going to hurt 2) she is seeing someone and you want to respect that or she might just tell you perhaps it was a bad idea to remain friends 3) you don’t want to completely avoid her because you want to show her that you are still there and love her very much – just don’t over do it. Its going to be extra hard because this isn’t a clean break… your still friends. All I can say is, just continue to show her that you love and care about her and maybe she will come around. I don’t recommend trying to wreck her relationship with her current guy though. Just hang in there… follow your heart.
I’m not reading all that. Simple answer to your title question: don’t. Move on and find someone who’s better.
to much text, didnt read it all
If you killed her or drugged her and kidnapped her you can have her back. Just make sure you handcuff her to something so she cant get away.
I’m sorry about what you’re going through. It’s very hard but i think you should move on. Cut all ties.
tough call
Maybe you should take a break – 30 days – and see how you feel after that.
Rash decision or no, you said what you said for a reason. Now play it out.
Well i read it all, could have used some paragraphs though…
If talking to her isn’t working, you’re just going to have to keep ignoring her for a while. In a week or two of absolutely no talking, she’s bound to want to talk about getting back together if you two were that serious.
In short form, don’t talk to her for a while and wait for her to contact YOU
As the saying goes…you don’t know what you’ve got till its gone! Well you are the one who broke up with her, hurt her etc. I would try to go on with your life, its not the end of the world! Try to move on with your life, focus on you, and making yourself happy. See what happens down the road, don’t sit around waiting for the fairytale ending, it might not happen.
long distance relationship?
If so you’re sunk, move on. It won’t get fixed when you’re not near her.
Short distance, you’ve got a chance, mind you just a chance, with Valentine’s Day coming up. Keep up the texting and be prepared to shell out some cash for flower delivery and to make some sort of big gesture, no nothing crazy level, but a nice dinner in a good place. Nobody likes being alone on Valentine’s Day.
If she is actually only "talking" to this guy and hasn’t been with him yet, you still have a chance.