That book has worked wonders for many people. Everything is Bible-based.

***South Africa: Thandi, a Witness, was asked by her employer to speak to a workmate named Bella, who was having marital problems. Bella’s husband, a policeman, had abused her physically and emotionally, so she had decided to divorce him. Thandi gave Bella two copies of the book The Secret of Family Happiness and encouraged her to give one to her husband. A week later, Thandi spoke to her and found out that her husband was reading the book and that their home had become peaceful. Three months later, Bella told Thandi that God had saved her marriage by means of prayer and the Family Happiness book. When Bella’s employer heard about this, she recommended that all 2,000 staff members get copies of the book. So far, Thandi has placed 96 Family Happiness books with fellow employees.

***While engaged in telephone witnessing, a full-time minister in Ethiopia was startled when she spoke to a man but heard a commotion in the background. The man asked her to call back later. When she did, he apologized and said that at the time of her earlier call, he and his wife were in the middle of a heated quarrel. The sister used this remark as an opportunity to point to the wise guidance the Bible gives for handling family problems. She told him that many families had been helped by The Secret of Family Happiness, a book published by Jehovah’s Witnesses. A few days after the book was delivered, the sister telephoned the man again. He exclaimed: “This book has saved my marriage!” In fact, he had held a family meeting so as to pass on the good points he had read in the book. A home Bible study was started, and soon the man began to attend Christian meetings regularly.

****The following letter was left at a Kingdom Hall of Jehovah’s Witnesses in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada.

“Dear Messenger:

“I am writing to thank the person that probably unknowingly created a miracle in my life.

“A couple of weeks ago, my husband and I were in a heated argument. I had just said the words, ‘This is so big that I really don’t know if I can get over it.’ Right then the doorbell rang. Now I had one of Jehovah’s Witnesses at my door, and it was too late to hide.

“When I opened the door, I was really too distracted to hear what was being said. I do remember the words ‘children’ and ‘family.’ The man pulled out a book called The Secret of Family Happiness. When I saw the title, I just started to cry and couldn’t stop. He looked up, and then he apologized for disturbing me, handed me the book, and left.

“The miracle? The reminder that when I don’t know what to do, it’s OK because God knows. My trust needs to be in God. He even sends a messenger. Thank you.”

The book The Secret of Family Happiness can benefit every member of the family. Among its instructive chapters are “Protect Your Family From Destructive Influences,” “Maintain Peace in Your Household,” and “You Can Overcome Problems That Damage a Family.”

***In South Africa a woman who is one of Jehovah’s Witnesses heard that her employer and her employer’s husband were thinking of getting a divorce. The Witness spoke to her boss about God’s view of marriage and showed her a book entitled The Secret of Family Happiness. This book, published by Jehovah’s Witnesses, highlights the Bible principles that apply to marriage, laying particular stress on how the Bible helps couples to solve problems. The employer and her husband both read the book and tried sincerely to apply the Bible counsel it presented. As a result, they decided not to get a divorce—another marriage saved by the application of Bible principles.

***A woman from the North Island of New Zealand wrote concerning the book The Secret of Family Happiness: “When I first sat down to study the publication, I felt as if my marriage was at a point where I could either ‘make it or break it.’”

She explained her background. “My mother had been through two very abusive marriages. As a result, we were always taught that men were nothing and that they were only out to oppress women. So I grew up a very stubborn, headstrong woman who would not back down from an argument.”

The woman recognized the need for changes. “I realized that because of not being in subjection to my husband and because I was too proud, I was giving up the chance for family happiness.” So she made vital adjustments, as she explains: “My husband and I are now studying the book as a family, and I’m still learning how to be a Christian wife. We are very happy with where we are now but still have a long way to go.

“Our home has never been as loving and peaceful as it is today.”

thats pretty sad. and its even more sad that you are so afraid of religion that it controls your happiness.