Will I ever fall in love again?
My boyfriend and I of four years just broke up today. It was kind of a nasty break up – we had a huge fight about a lot of stuff and then we just ended the relationship. He was my best friend and we did everything together and we shared all the same dreams and we just clicked so well but then in the last year he just started to have problems in our relationship and we would break up then get back together and try to work on them but then we would break up again and this is the fifth time we break up but we had such a huge fight and now its the best thing for both of us.
I just feel as though I will never find someone who loved me as much as him or someone I will love as much as I loved him and it feels so bad. All the things in my room remind me of him – the stuffed animals he gave me, cds, even some of his clothes I have. All the songs on the radio about breaking up – I can totally relate too now and its like no matter how hard I try not to think of him something always reminds me of him. Ah, it just hurts so bad not to have him in my life and I feel like I will never get over him.
He was my first love too. Can anyone relate and is it possible to fall in love again or find someone new? Any suggestions on how to get over him faster or just make the pain less? Any ideas are welcome.
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oh dear,i really feel sorry about you.yes, no body can erase the memories of their 1st love.that is the nature.it will last for ever.i do not want to hurt you by telling these things,but i have to tell you the truth.
you can get over him.but it will take a lot of time.when you were with him,your world was filled with a lot of things na.but when he left you,your world is empty.that feeling makes you feel bad.so dear,you fill your world with some thing interesting.try to concentrate on your studies/music/dancing…or some thing like that.
make sure you remove those gifts,animals,cds,his clothes from your room.keep them @ a place where you can not find them again @all.refresh your mind.if you feel you want to cry,then do that.do not accumulate pressure in the mind.
do not go after any guy,bcz you lost him.that may create more problems.let the time to go.a true love will surely come to you.when time goes,you will create the strength to join with another guy.
dear,it is easy to brekup relations.but it is really hard to protect relationships.& it is bad to suffer the pain of a broken relationship.
you take a step forward.it is a new life,with new thoughts.have confidence in your mind.
best of luck…
tc
only time can tell