How did you feel when you met the ex husband/wife of your new boyfriend or girlfriend?What was the scene like?
How did you feel when you met the ex husband/wife of your new boyfriend or girlfriend?What was the scene like?
How was the situation or what was it like the first time you met him/her, and he was the father or mother of your boyfriend/girlfriends child. Were you intimidated, scard, nervous, did they set ground rules,were they mean?
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I had dated my husband for a few weeks before we planned on meeting with his ex-wife. I was nervous for obvious reasons. We met at a restaurant and ate and it was just us three. The real reason we met was they had 2 kids together and she wanted to meet me before the kids did so she could be sure that I was okay around the kids, which I understood.
I didn’t feel intimidated but maybe more nervous because I kept wondering what she thought about me. My husband told me at the time that whatever bothered me I had to tell him b/c he couldn’t read my mind. Well it is true and we were at her house once and he was talking and called her dear…then I got mad. I had to tell him and explain why that bothered me, b/c endearments in my mind belonged to people you cared about…etc.
I think if you’re honest with your boyfriend/girlfriend and act nice and cordial to their ex then when you two are alone you can be more honest with your feelings and if something happened you didn’t care for.
Four years of marriage later I’m fine with her. She’s a nice person and we don’t have problems.
Well ours is a weird situation. We met online and I moved to live with my husband (I had one child, he had three). We all lived together as a family. My ex was in another state. Hubby’s ex was 15 mins from us.
She would barely speak to us – only as necessary. She hated that we were happy together and we gave her the nickname of "evil one" because of her actions. We still are cordial to her if she is in the room – like at a wedding, etc. – but we will not go out of our way to hold a conversation either – its more less hello and that’s about it.
My hubby has NEVER spoken to my ex – and my ex has made no attempt to talk to me except for a few brief times regarding son’s graduation which he did not attend (long story). We helped our son move some things and his father just stood in the doorway and looked at us (me, hubby, son) and never said a word to any of us.
I could have cared less and she was a bit hostile.