Comments on: What would you do?

By: sarahadams_77

sarahadams_77 — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 00:00:53 +0000

Well I know you are hurting and I’m sorry. Women sometimes can be cold and hurtful and I’m sorry for that but they are not all like that I feel no one should be alone and you should try again but be cautious. Hope this help good luck and God Bless

By: bchesire68

bchesire68 — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 00:00:53 +0000

grow up and get over it the past is the past you cant always live in the past and not everyone is alike

By: alonei

alonei — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 00:00:53 +0000

If you want to stay single then that is fine but if you want to be in aloving relationship again give it a chance, and have faith. My husband and I are both from broken marriages, I was single for 18 yrs before I met him. He was only divorced for a yr. We dated for 5 yrs before getting married because he was being cautious, and I understood that. We are very happy. I am glad I waited for the right guy.

By: crazyrandom

crazyrandom — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 00:00:53 +0000

You’ve obviously been hurt, and yes, many people have been hurt and divorced more than once, so it makes total sense that you are being cautious. However, you need to realize that a) not everyone will be like the person that hurt you, not all realtionships will be like the last one and you might succeed in having a good one this time, and b) there is no "right speed" at which to move about in a relationship. Just take your time getting to know someone, and if you start to shut down, take a breath or a step back, but don’t get discouraged. If someone isn’t willing to give you time, then they probably aren’t worth your time. If she really cares for you, she’ll wait. Take your time, and good luck!

By: jchell1970

jchell1970 — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 00:00:53 +0000

i was in your shoes once and no it is not fun. i had to leave that past behind me and look ahead. when your not looking for a relationship is when it usually happens. i was burnt badly too but i decided it was very unfair to look at other men the same way i looked at me ex husband. it is a big world out there and plenty of fish in the sea. you can always throw back the fish if it is not what your looking for.