How many of you are did/ are saving your virginity till marriage?
I was just wondering, in this modern day and age, do ‘normal’ people still save their virginity for marriage?
(By ‘normal I mean people who do not come from a strong religious and/or moral background, in which case they probably have no choice but to save their virginity)
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The problem with "saving" it until marriage is this: What do you do if you marry someone who isn’t good in bed, or has a small penis? It happens, and you will learn that a part of loving someone is being sexually compatible. I’m not saying that you should go crazy and start sleeping around – definitely only have sex if you have strong feelings for a person, but I think it’s old fashioned and unrealistic to try to save yourself for marriage. Also, think of the guy – he’ll be very nervous about hurting you if it’s your first time, and what a lousy honeymoon if you’re sore from having lost your virginity. I suggest rethinking this idea – you’re virginity isn’t some special prize to be saved for one man only.
i def will save it for marriage. wats the point of losing it with a guy u might never end up being with forever?
I was raised in a really bad eviornment and i saw my mother constantly beat so i have a very high respect for women im only 16 but i am saving my virgingity for marriage because of the fact that I do not want to hurt anyone It’s not that im unnattractive iv’e had many oppourtunities to have sex but i refused Ex: a girl and i were drinking and she had me carry her to her room and her parents were not home and she was totally wasted and sending lots of strong verbal and body signals of she wanted it but i didn’t want to take advantage of the fact she was drunk
I am saving myself till marriage. I don’t believe in giving yourself away to someone who you don’t know is worthy or not. I wasn’t brought up in a strongly religious background, but it’s just a personal choice that I made.
What happens if you never get married or never succeed in obtaining a partner of any kind, even a ‘casual’ one? You will end up a 50-year-old virgin and climbing the walls.
When I reached the age of 20, I cracked under the weight of sexual frustration and lost my virginity in a brothel. If I had not done that I would have been 26 going on 27 before my first sexual contact.
My only regret is not doing it earlier.