If your man cheated on you to get his self esteem back after you told him no other woman would want you?
would you want him to tell you or would you want him to keep it to himself ? What if he did it twice, to see if the first time around wasnt just due to luck ?
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I would tell the dumba@@, that the question was figurative statement that required no literal translation!
tell your wife
Me personally would want to be told.
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The husband is retarded. Self esteem doesn’t come from getting someone to sleep with you.
There about about 398023498 people in this world that will sleep with anything that moves.
If the woman is saying that no other woman would want the man she’s got then she’s trying to be mean and thinks that the man’s self esteem is so low that he will believe her. I would not tell my man that if I truly loved him. Whoever this man is, he needs to kick the woman to the curb and find someone else. If I were the man I would tell her, just to rub it in her face that someone else does want him and that she’s wrong. Then I would promptly tell her to carry her a$$ somewhere else.
There are serious issues are going on and counseling is in order. You should have never been mean and told him that no other woman would want him and he never should have cheated. He should tell you and you both should go into marriage counseling.
NEVER TELL….
You think it is the best thing to do… it’s not. You will regret it.
If you feel guilty, that is your burden to carry for cheating.
Personally, when my wife said the same thing, I didn’t stop at 2 times. If she really feels that way, then I don’t really care to be faithful. If you want me to love you enough to be faithful, then treat me that way.
Any woman who utters those words lays down a line that must be crossed. It’s a very bad idea to utter those words.
So infidelity = self respect.
yeah, Honey, sure….try another excuse
Why would you tell him that?…by doing that you gave him an open door to cheat and sleep around! once a man cheats, he will always cheat!
You fell for the okie doke! He cheated because he wanted to. I can’t tell you what to do, but I would tell him to take a picture of my butt and the bottom of my feet, because that’s all he’ll see on my way out of the door. He’s a jerk and he played you.
well,i think i would like him to stand like a man to tell everything about the other woman,nothing to blame but myself because it may not be happen if i did not provoke him.
Yes I would want to know and yes he would be out of there.
If I’ve said it once, I’ve said it a 100 times. MEN ARE CLUELESS!!! I’m sure when your wife told you no other woman would want you, she wasn’t talking about sex. I bet she was complaining about how you fail at doing the kind of things a man should do in a marriage. Are you a slob and never pick up after yourself? Do you do your share of the housework, cooking, laundry? Or does your wife have to do it all and wait on you hand and foot? Do you do ANYTHING except put in your 8 hours a day at the job, take out the trash (sometimes), mow the lawn when she nags you to do it, or ever do anything for your children, except play with them when you feel like it?
But did you listen to anything she said? Or did you just tell yourself that by having sex with another woman would make you a man and all your faults as a husband would just disappear, if you could get some woman in bed? So you found someone just like yourself who had to prove to them self that having sex with someone would make the truth about them self just go away.
Go ahead, keep cheating on your wife. Throw it in her face that you just broke another marriage vow to her. I bet when she finds out that you have thought of another way to fail her in this marriage and you have put her at a high risk of contracting an STD or Aids from you because you cheated on her it will be the last straw for her. She will probably kick you to the curb so you can spend the rest of your life having sex with other women to prove to yourself that you aren’t a failure, but a man.
Maybe you should have taken the time to listen to your wife and tried to work with her to improve yourself and this marriage, instead of dipping your stick where it doesn’t belong. You just made a bad situation worse.
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