if a guy did this to you (which he did to me), how would you get him back (because i want to)?
okay so theres this guy i like whose a little older. his ex isnt that attractive but yet hes in love with her which is cute i think. but the other night we were talking and he said he liked me and i told him i liked him too which of course is true. the day after that, he winded up going out with his ex again. this really bugs the crap out of ,me because of what happens next. he IMs me but my status says im asleep. so his IM says- "wake up b4 i slap yo ass to wake u up". me n him are very flirty so this normally wouldnt bother me but the fact that he had a girlfriend AND pretended like i didnt know pissed me off. so i just talked to him but i was being blunt so he was like whats wrong n i told him nothing was wrong. but obviously there is. i wanna get him back so bad because i really like him. i dont know what to do. yeah this is kinda childish but i dont really care.
yeah he wanted to go out with me. he told me. and hes my best friend’s best friend. she told me he really likes me.
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If you like him so much why would you want to hurt him? You’re right, it is childish. But if you really, really, want to get back at him then tell him you know about his gf and that you don’t ever want to see him again. Yes it is a game but guys always want what they can’t have. I bet his ex seemed like she was moving on when he decided he wanted her back.
You can’t get anyone back that you never went out with in the first place. Just because someone tells you they like you does not mean you two are boyfriend/girlfriend.
when he said he liked you ever think as a freind you idiot and he obviously was joking, by any chance is your Aunt Flo in town?
UHm, dont even trip .
If he’s in love with the chick you shud b happy for him .
And if he’s IMing you then he wants to be friends.
so dont do nothing?
and you still like him after all he did to you? wake up girl! he was using you..he only wanted to have a chance with you just incase he couldnt be with his ex…move on the best way you can get him back and the most mature way is to not like him anymore and not show that what he does bothers you..bluntly tell him to stop flirting with you when he has a girlfriend…maybe hes not actually flirting though and youre mistaking him for flirting….some people are naturally flirty without realizing it
tell him straight up..
"Hey, So what’s with you saying you like me last night.. and you completely ditch me for your ex!
i could be with someone else right now.. but i chose you instead and you ditch me like that!?"
you’re the biggest douche bag ever.
find your own guy insead of trying to make him choose between his ex girlfriend that hes in love with and you, some dweeb.
chasing people hurts, and if he can’t use popper punctuation then you should find someone else.
you just need to talk to him.. communication works the best (trust me, i’ve learned the hard way:p). tell him exactly how you feel, and explain that he just needs to chose what he wants, because if he wants to be with her, but keeps flirting with you, it’s just going to keep hurting you.
go up to him, angrily tell him how u feel, insult him, slap him, then go away and nevr talk to him again. it may notb tht much of payback, but u will thank urself l8r. good luck!!!!!!
If he’s in love w/his ex gf and he’s still not over her, then what would happen if you guys went out but yet over the time he was still in love w/her? I wouldn’t even bother talking to somebody like him. What a waste of time. So far he sounds pretty shaddy and he needs to stop playing games w/you.
Stop wasting your time trying to get him back b/c morelikely he’s gonna end up falling for her again.
kiss someone in front of him then flirt with him after that
Steal his ex away, turn her gay, that will get him back.
you can’t get back at him because he’s just stupid. if he liked you more than he liked his girlfriend then he would dump her. if his relationship was bad with her then he would leave her