is it a mistake to go back to your EX boyfriend?
here is my story : i went back to my X that i dumped him last year for a stupid reasons and i am only 17 years old.and i went back to him just new but i am in love with him but don’t know if he loves me or not but he said it he told me that he loves me ……. and now i feel that he is ignoreing me online and on the phone.
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You know you’re settling when you have to ask yourself if you are, I know you don’t want to believe it, I didn’t either.
Listen to your gut. Don’t let it become overthrowed by your heart/mind, or your ‘feelings’ or the little things he does/ says that makes you smile. Trust me. I didn’t want to believe this either. Be a Diva. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away, if he doesn’t want you nothing can make him stay. Don’t compromise your values, even if you think they’re only little. If you don’t stand for that little thing, you’ll fall for every big thing. I know, you feel like you’re still not sure. I did too. No one is perfect, so stop your search for the perfect man. Rather, raise the bar to a standard that you feel completely content with. If you want the best, be the best. Let him compliment your shine. Know your worth, if God bought you for a price, how can you allow yourself to depreciate because of a man. You, stand up for you. It’s easier said than done but it’s easier done now than later. You will have your heart hurt and your arms empty, but these are symptoms of a Diva who regains poise and confidence and let’s the right person enter her life, instead of going to find him. There will be a happily ever after, trust me, as said before, big problems now, look so small after a few months, so let it go. Let it fly, let it run wild. Let it teach you lessons about yourself and love. Grow. Get more mature and responsible and love yourself more than anyone else in your life. When you accept his unconstructive critiscism the first time, he accepts that it’s ok for him to say. But it’s like you don’t know what to say the first time, right? Yeah, I know. But when you regain your senses, become the diva that you know you are and nip it in the bud. Even if you have to use those words. Nip. It. In. The. Bud. I am a Diva, of great worth. I am precious, so if your critiscism isn’t to build me up then your criticism should not exist. Simple. When you fall over, you get embarassed, but you pick yourself up, embarassed and all. So, when you fall in love, and you’ve given of yourself, be it mentally, physically, emotionally, or your time, and it’s time to pick yourself up, don’t think that you can do it without feeling embarassed or exposed or incomplete, it’s inevitable, but lasts a short while. He isn’t the last, although he may even be the first, at least now you have more understanding of what you don’t want. Listen. Listen to words of those who have had experience. You owe him nothing, as he owes you nothing. You decide. You choose who you give of yourself. Live. Laugh. Love. Never settle for anything less than butterflies.
its difficult to work out the second time around
No itz not wrong to go back to ur ex..becuz later on in life he can change..He loves u..U jus have to tlk to him about how ur feeling..and im sure he will understand wat u feel..I went bck to my x boyfriend..sometimes u never know how much u love them until u start thinkn about ur past with them..
You dumped him and he was probably left confused. Hes thinking that if he acts the same way you will leave again.
You left when you were together. You want him back now that hes gone. In his mind, the only way to keep you is to be distant.
Just be open and probably explain the reason you dumped him. He’ll let you know how he feels too.
Goodluck
maybe you should ask your self..Can I Eat again what I already spit out?
Hes probably angry because you dumped him last year but after some time he’ll be okay.
booty call
Well my sister is 17 to and she does the same things to she loves some guy and then dumps him for another guy and dumps him and goes back to her x i think they love you they just want you back because their jealous and they just want you back and sometimes your to late.
Believe me sweetie, you deserve nothing but the best. Coming from someone who has experienced it all & been through it all. Bad relationships and good. If he loved you you’d know and you wouldn’t be uncertain questioning yourself. Going back to an ex isn’t a good thing for a lot of reasons. Once you two get back together, the reasons you two broke up in the first place will still be there, & even if it doesn’t seem so at first in the honeymoon phase of getting back together and reconnecting, they will soon arise again. Another, An ex boyfriend is an ex for a reason. We break up with partners because we are not happy. Regardless if it was a stupid reason or not, if you were happy you two would have never parted. Happiness is what matters and we all deserve the best. If the person isn’t willing to give you the best, there’s someone out there who is. I was in your position before and thought I was in love. Looking back it now though I know I was just young and thought I loved that person. When it’s right you’ll know it. If he is ignoring you, you need to find someone who not only will never ignore you but someone who wants to talk to you all the time, not just when they feel like it.
think about why you guys broke up- has much changed since then?
no dont go back it was a unhealthy relationship in a sense that he ignores you he clearly thinks very little of you
You need to have an honest talk with him. Go over to his house and let him decide if he wants to be with you. Keep an open mind for you don’t know what he will say and it might upset you if you are expecting him to want to hook back up. Be respectful of his opinion and try not to react to it. Pretend you were expecting his answer and he won’t feal really bad and try to stay away from you so you don’t see him. If he says yes, but he doesn’t really mean it, still go with him because if he really wants to break up again, he will say so. Either way it will settle the debate between you two.
you cannot enter the same river twice..
someone said it several thousand years ago.. and it’s still true – perhaps because people have not changed..
therefore, unless he’s in a coma, you should be moving on.. you are not married to him or have kids with him, right?..
it’s not about him this time, it’s about you.. you have realized that a mistake was made and did things to rectify it – which takes a strong person to admit that a mistake was there in the first place.. and he said yes, right?.. and unless you were twisting his arm at that point, he said so on his own while not being under the influence.. so both of you made a commitment.. and unfortunately it takes 2 people to make a relationship – one-sided "relationships" are called "stalking"..
so make sure that his physical health is fine.. and if it’s not that, then do you really want to deal with his mental issues?.. and if this is a new start to a relationship, who knows how his apparent grudge will come out in the future?.. don’t know about you but i really would not want to find out..