How do I get back at a married man for lying to me?
I didn’t know he was married, thought he was in love with me, but apparently not. Now he’s playing with another woman or two. How do I get back at him for breaking my heart? I want to or want someone to teach him a lesson.
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First of all, consider yourself lucky for 1, not getting pregnant 2, not catching anything {get tested} 3, a great lesson to be cautious, 4. being free from him. You should be thanking him for being out of your life. However, I really empathize because it truly hurts deeply, Take care of yourself first. Then recognize that he is seeking to fill his own inner void and will never, ever find happiness but be forever locked in a pattern of lying and hurting others. You can forgive yourself for being sucked in, Recognize your part in this, for you probably are feeling pain because of the potential of what it might have been. Then forgive him for being less than the man you wanted him to be,
If it makes you feel better, there is some level of knowing in all women that detects when things are not right, trust me, she knows but perhaps is not willing to accept it. I was in such a relationship and I knew but it hurt so much I couldn’t deal with it for a long time. I knew by his touch, his emotional distance, his complaints about things around the home, his joy when he left and his sadness when he came home, the women that showed up at my work to just stare at me, The hang ups on the phone. Trust me, she knows.
Tell his wife.
take some pics, keep your emails and send them all to his wife so she can bleed him dry in the divorce.
Life will do it for you, it always does, why wast your time, pick up and move on. Revenge only truly hurts the person doing the revenge.
Why not just confront his wife? But that also hurts her too. But you could also save her years of lies and an STD!!!
Sleep with his wife.
just forget about him and move on with your life.that is the best way you can get him back.
How do you get back? Move on and never contact or think about him again. He’ll always think back and wonder about you that way.
ps. although sleeping with his wife/relative/friend comes in a close second.
Tell his wife like NOW! I know I would. Simple!
Teach for a-hole a lesson……hardly!
Walk away…………well, another lesson learned in personal relationships! Move on and be careful next time!
I don’t think you want to confront his wife. That’s not your place.
Karma
For one, I didn’t read your question as well, just now realized that he was not your husband, But Still, Could you forgive and Move on ?
Definitely tell the wife. If you do it in the proper manor, she will understand that you didn’t know. Make sure you give her lot’s of detail, so when she confronts him, he can’t lie and worm his way out of it.
She does have a right to know
Tell his wife.
Revenge will leave you empty. You will benefit in the long term by walking away from an unpleasant situation instead of thinking of ways to hurt someone who you can simply cut out of your life.
Send him one of these cards that can get your point across. http://watchyourmouthcards.com
Not only tell his wife but tell all the others he is cheating with
YOu can also ad him to dontdatehimgirl.com
Post an ad on craigslist
Send emails to everyone you know that knows him with his pic and what happened.
If you have money rent a billboard with his personal info on and a pic.Or a pic that says cheats on wife
Im a deceitful person lol. I just realized I could really damage someone lol
You need to find out a way to get a hold of his wife and tell her because she needs to know what is going on. Then you and his wife can find a way to get him back. Then maybe that will show him not to mess with you or her. So find out a way to get a hold of his wife.
Show up at his house one night and ask to speak to both of them privately. Apologize to his wife and explain what happened and that you didn’t know he was married. Emphasize that you didn’t know and never would have been with him if you had. Tell her you are racked with guilt for what you did and needed to come clean. Most likely his wife will be angry but not entirely surprised. She’ll be more angry with him when she realizes (might take a while) you are a victim too.
I understand you are hurt and furious but be the bigger person.Keep your dignity. Don’t stoop to his level. Walk away.
You have too much class for revenge. He’ll get caught.
tell his wife what he was doing with you then dip out and left her divorce him and ruin his life
Then you will win and the wife will be free from a bad husband
The best way to get back at him is to move on and don’t look back. A loser like that has no lesson to learn. He’s already swimming in a pool of his own deceit and is incapable of seeing the hurt that he’s doling out. I’m sorry dear… but his misery should NOT be your mission in life. It’s a very negative outlet for your frustration. Instead, do something nice for yourself to build your self esteem back up after such a hard blow. You’ll feel better for having taken the moral high ground.
Grow up and move on with your life, that’s how. Let this be a lesson to you to be a little more cautious of who you let into your bed. He’ll get his eventually.
The best way to get back at him is to move on with your life and be happy.Dont worry about that lieing cheating dog.Move on and find someone else better.
You should tell his wife. I would want to know. She has a right to know.
Depending on what personal information you have saved, cards, letters,e-mails or photos you could always forward them on to his better half. I remember about a web site called cheaters, put his information up there as well.
Be careful of the laws in your state before doing so & remember he probably not worth the effort. He doesn’t deserve any second more of your time.
Getting on with your life and finding true happiness is always better & healthier way of getting revenge.
Do everyone a big favour and tell his wife. She needs to know and not be a loser in the closet….
Nothing funnier than those saying tell his wife. How does telling his wife get back at HIM? Essentially they are advising you to destroy another woman’s world in order to satisfy your desire for revenge. People should think before they offer gratuitous advice.
you have to tell his wife. he promised to love her and cherish her for the rest of their lives. its wrong for you as a woman to keep silent. she has to know. tell her. i would feel very guillty if i knew that about another womans husband and i wouldnt tell her. i would want to know.