Any way to recover a relationship so harmed from depression?
My boyfriend and I dated for a year and a half. For the first 6 months, we were very in love. But then, my depression appeared. I yelled, slapped some, called him names some, kept him late a lot, and threatened to kill myself a few times. I always loved him after the episodes were over, and told him I never meant what I did and said. He said he understood. So we toughed it through with our love for the next year until I got better, but now he says it’s too painful and just broke up with me. He says he’s over me but that he still feels something. I know I can get it back if he’ll let me back in. But he isn’t wanting to, but he might go out with me on Sunday. He really is anxious to move on but I know I can show him we can move on together. It was just so painful. And he freezes
How can I mend his broken heart?
How can I gain a second chance?
He means the world to me. He doesn’t believe it can be repaired but I know personally that it can. It just needs time that he needs to give.
I hope someone will answer soon…..this is SO important to me.
No, I won’t go into depression again. The situation is fixed.
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You are asking people to answer this question but people aren’t hesitant. We don’t know that if what we want to say will cause you to go into depression again. It sounds like he is unable to handle a relationship with you. You can try and get him to let you back in so you can date again but then again what is going to happen when you go into you depression state again?! This is something you need to talk to him about and see if there is a chance that you can get back together…if no then you need to move on and live you life. I hope this helps.