How should I get my ex back?
My ex and I were going out for about a month and I started having second thoughts. I told him of this and he was very convinced he was going to make things work out and he wanted to get through this with me. Unfortunately, I jumped the gun and told him it’s over. He was very hurt and wanted me back, but waited a day to talk to me about it so I could calm down. When we talked again I told him I’m sure now, and we hung out to try things out. But, I could tell it wasn’t the same by how he acted. A couple days later he was telling his friends we were going back out, which was fine with me. Then two days later I had him over to watch The Notebook and he laid next to me on the couch and kissed a couple times. I know he’s not a good kisser, he was so upset about "messing up" our first kiss the first week we went out. But anyway, these kisses weren’t much better. Later that night on AIM he broke up with me. He told his best friend it was because I broke his heart and he has a strong bond with me as a friend. Could it be that I’m not making him sure of himself? I’d really like him back… my best friend knows him very well and she says I really have to act hard to get. I’m confused, any pointers?
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I think you are giving the poor kid mixed signals. It sounds like you want him around, but don’t really treat him like a boyfriend. If you aren’t going to commit to making the relationship work, then leave him alone so he can get over you.
If you do truly want him back, then don’t play games. Sit down and talk with him about the problems in your relationship and how you two want to fix them.
if you’d really like your ex boyfriend back you should try to be encouraging to him. it sounds like he feels bad about not being a good kisser. tell him he shouldn’t worry too much about it and that he can certainly improve himself maybe even with your help
if there are other issues you need to work through them as well.
acting hard to get is a little tricky. it can work in certain instances but you don’t want to overdo it in case he takes it the wrong way and thinks you no longer want him.