How would you feel and should react when your housemate brought home your ex-girl friend for the second time?
They met during a gathering that I organised.
First time (was about 6 months ago), while I were rushing works at my room, they came home at midnight (both knew that I was rushing works to meet deadlines and hadn’t left the house for any parties, including xmas/new year, for two months). And the second time when it happened again, I was notified of who the guest was minutes before her arrival. My housemate was making dinner and wanted me to pretend to eat along as I had already eaten. (Common practice at home was we informed each other up-front if we were having any guests, etc.)
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Did you mention to your housemate that you didnt like it? Is your housemate not allow to see anyone you ever dated? Over 6 months is a pretty long time to respect your feelings. Maybe you should just get over it
I’d be pissed. Breaking the Golden Rule.
bass-turd!
He’s dating your ex. If you don’t like it, you will have to move.
She is your ex. That is the key to this puzzle. The two of you have moved on and you are uncomfortable seeing her with someone else. Be the responible person and treat her as you would any girl your housemate brings home. If you broke it off for a good reason, chances are he will figure out what you did and do the same.
why do you have him as a housemate, if he’s dating your ex…..u never date ur friends ex’s that’s just cold blooded. he might as well have spit in your face and told you that you ain’t shyt cuz that’s basically what he has done.
Sounds like your housemate and your ex are an Item…
You and your ex should be able to move on and date whomever you like since your relationship has ended.
Your issue is with your housemate.
Does your housemate respect your feelings on this matter?
Are you being selfish and making a mountain out of a mole hill?
Is it you who has failed to let go and move on from the relationship with your ex?
Are you being disrespectful of your housemate and attempting to tell your housemate whom he/she can date?
The main question you need to ask yourself, is why does this bother you so much?
You might need to communicate to your housemate that you are feeling a bit uncomfortable with the situation and perhaps the two of you can come up with a fair resolution to this issue.
Remember that the relationship (no matter what it is) between your housemate and your ex might simply fizzle out and if you over dramatize it, you could be forced to change your living situation.
Best Wishes.
new roommate time!!!
I would be po big time. friends dont date ex period!
Let’s face it he is nailing her! Why be pissed it’s only pu$$y. Go find some new a$$ and get over it!!!
KIck him out!
i would feel like your housemate and your ex-girlfriend was going out together and they didn’t let you know anything and i would feel very disrespected because the housemate knew you went out with her, but he didn’t bother to ask you if it was ok to go out with her.
Personally I would find that to be uncomfortable & in bad taste. Call me a prood but my female friends & I always agreed to Not date our ex’s. That way something like what you are going through never happens. On the other hand it doesn’t seem to bother your ex to show up with your roommate. Both of them are throwing it in your face, that’s why it is distastefull. If you are uncomfortable about it say something, course it is probably too late for that.
Who are you to judge them?Doesn’t your ex has the right to choose anyone she wants and why can’t your house mate bring his girl to his room even though she’s your EX(not your present girl).You only think about yourself that is why she became your EX.
Kind of cruel since it sounds like you aren’t dating anyone. Your problem sounds like it isn’t so much with your housemate as much as with your ex, though.
Your housemate may be really interested in this girl. He would feel like he was sneaking around behind your back if he never brought her into the house.
Since he does bring her home (only twice, which was not much), he is doing it with very short – if any – notice. Probably because he’s afraid you might have an argument with him about her.
You’re forced to spend time with her there or knowing she’s there. If it’s painful for you, then there’s a simple way out of that situation: say to your roommate, ‘It’s painful for me’ and don’t go into great detail. Presumably she has a place too and he could just as well visit her there.
It’s worth it to try to get over your bad feelings about her, though; the best way is to be actively dating someone new whom you are interested in. In which case you get to skip the whole ‘It’s painful for me’ conversation.
o know i would not put up with it let him or her know that your not going to put up with that mess
been there done that. you enjoy following me LOL that’s all you need to say to him