how can i get my ex back ?
me and my boyfriend broke up last night cause he said we argue too much and i act different around my friends. which i dont think i do and all my friends said i act normal.
but he said once i can prove that i can act normal around my friends and stop being bitchy, then we can try again.
but i want him back now !
how can i prove this to him ?
he said he still wants to be with me.
he just said he wants to give me time to change my ways around my friends.
Related Information:
Filed under: Ways To Get An Ex Back
Like this post? Subscribe to my RSS feed and get loads more!
Try taking some accountability for your own actions is the first thing.. and although ur friends say u act normal, well maybe its normal for them but not for your bf.. people tend to act differently behind closed doors then when they are around their friends.. maybe u kinda make your bf feel like the third wheel around your friends, or maybe u feel braver around your friends and maybe act alittle more ballsy where he’s concerned when your around your friends.. how about actually taking a good look into your life with your bf and putting yourself in his shoes and trying to actually find where u could actually be different … but until your willing to take on someone of the responsibility for the relationship going a rye you wont be able to prove that you have actually changed and you wont get him back..
It’s over Sweetie. His reason for breaking up makes no sense. Therefore, he just doesn’t want to be with you. Have some pride. Move on. Trying to change who you are to please what you think he wants is really a control mechanism on his part. He will have no respect for you. Move on. It’s over.
You have to hang out with him. Only words and actions can tell.
Sop hanging around your friends with your BF. If you continue with it
I am sure he will not come back.
Tell him you will no longer hang out with friends when he is around.
honestly you might think you act the same but maybe you do act a little different I used to do that as well but what is your priority ur ex or ur friends think about it!
tell him you want to spend more time with just him and less time with your friends and do something to make you look hot to him when you see him next, get a new outfit or something to spice it up haha
Dear one,
I agree with Jordan M’s answer – it’s over. For whatever reason, he just doesn’t want to be your boyfriend anymore. He found any kind of excuse and ended it.
So just let him go and move on from there.
Sure it hurts now. You bet it hurts. However, you’ll be better off without him.
You have to spend time apart. And then come back after several weeks and prove to him you have changed. Men are visual, so when you do come back, try to change some aspects of your physical self too, like a new hair cut, outfit etc. And it will really make him think you have changed, though you probably never did on the inside. The thing is, we who are born to be bitches, will always be a bitch some days no matter how hard we try not to. We can’t help it.
If you can wait until tomorrow night call him and talk to him. Ask him exactly what it is that you do to make him feel the way he does. And when he explains to you just listen..dont talk over him dont say no I dont..no I dont. I think sometimes we dont realize that we act different around certain people but we do. Tell him that you really dont want to lose him over this and tell him you want to change and be the girl that he wants.