has anyone read the book “the magic of making up” or any other books about fixing relationships?
my husband and i split up, long story, we fight alot about stupid things and it just been building up. he was very close to letting me come home, but i was calling him too much. i now see why that made him mad, but now he is telling me its over forever….i called him so much because i love him, i feel you can never say it too much…… has any one ever read one of these books, what do they say… i am not sure if i want to spend money on this yet. can someone tell me what it says to do in a situation like mine? any help would be great.
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Not understanding your situation my answer could be totally worthless, so read it with a grain of salt. Remember I only have 4-5 sentences of information.
First – why did you move out? If your separation isn’t court ordered then I would just move back home and tell him he will have to force you to leave – legally.
Second – once you are back in the home buy the book the "Proper care and feeding of husbands" by Dr. Laura – Do everything she tells you. The hurts are so deep it seems that to repair the damage and if you really want this man. You need to go back into the relationship expecting to do 100% of the effort. If you are expecting him to meet you half way then forget it. Don’t waste your time.
Now if he is abusive, substance abuser, cheater than all bets are off.
It take two to fight – stop fighting.
There’s my two cents and that is probably about what it is worth.
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