How comfortable/trusting would you feel when your boyfriend wants to be friends again with his ex-girlfriend?
The boyfriend is a good friend to his friends (both male and female friends).
The ex-girlfriend used to be a good friend of his before they had a relationship. They haven’t seen/talked to each other for a long time until recently.
Would you just trust him and hope that they just stay as platonic friends, just as he had promised/claimed?
How would you accept that situation? If you do, how do you handle your own emotions/feelings toward it?
Is it fair for the girlfriend if she doesn’t feel comfortable with it? Or does the girlfriend have her own issues if she can’t accept?
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I have been in your shoes. actually on both sides of the fence too. I wanted to stay friends with my first ex when I married again but the husband wouldn’t allow it. I was pissed but now I am glad because I would have probably ended up not just being friends. The marriage I am in now I won’t have hubby being friends with ex because even though they get along while they aren’t married and hated each other while they were married I keep in mind that I know I would have slept with the first ex if given an opportunity. Explain that you can not be comfortable with the two of them being friends again and that you are afraid of what will happen to the two of you.
I have been through this situation before. They guy told me that he had one ex friend b4 we started dating so I had the chance to except it, meet her, and actually feel that it was platonic which made me feel comfortable and I was ok with it. Will u even know for sure, no, but trust isnt a fact. As long as hes not srtingin a long a bunch of ex’s and there randomly calling all the time it should be ok. But remember always go with your gut and if you dont feel comfortable dont do it.