How do I show my ex girlfriend I still love her and get back with her?
We’ve been together for 5 years. We had planned our whole life! Businesses we wanted to own, houses, family, everything great about a good relationship.
About 2 years ago, a major life changing event took place in my life. It put me in a very dark place for a very long time, but the whole time she stood beside me and helped me. She is the strongest person I know!
During the recovery time of my darkness, I messed up. I took her for granted and used her. I didn’t show her how much she meant to me, I didn’t show her how much I cared about her and I didn’t show her my love for her. I used her as a drug to escape my demons. I thought that she would never leave.
Last month, she broke up with me. She said it was because I didn’t show her how much I cared and because I didn’t show commitment. (We had a wedding planned and even knew which rings, but I didn’t buy the rings. I was stupid!)
So with all that said, how can I fix this? You all have to understand too, she is literally all I have! I have no family. Her and her family became my family over time. I even lived with her and her parents for a couple years during my darkness.
She told me lately that she doesn’t want to get back with me at all and she’s still hurt and upset with what I did.
My biggest mistake now is I keep emailing her and worrying about her. She is my world and I can’t take it without her.
Please help me, I love her so much and miss her!
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Move on! An ex is an ex, for a reason!
If you loved her so much how come you let this happen? You realized too late… so now… your going to have to wait it out… and in the meantime, start working on improving yourself if not for her, for yourself so that you can be healthy for the future with or without her. Stop emailing her, stop hounding her… that is a big turn off for someone who doesn’t want someone…. for now…. if there is hope for you then it will come to her mind when you leave her alone… she will start wondering what your doing….. she will come to you… if she doesn’t after you have laid off of her….. then you got your answer. If you keep on her… you will lose her. So…. take my advice… and get yourself together so you look attractive to her and let her come to you and if she does… don’t take advantage of her ever again because then you will lose her for good and rightly so.
good luck