Comments on: How many of you people are seriously saving sex for marriage?

By: dvalle

dvalle — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 05:22:37 +0000

I didnt but am single now and am gonna wait till i get married.

By: lmcadwel

lmcadwel — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 05:22:37 +0000

Sex is a HUGE part of marriage, and that said, different people have different expectations and needs in that department. I am not promoting promiscuous behavior, however I think that it is healthy for young people to explore themselves and their needs and desires before committing to a lifelong relationship.

Futhermore, the majority of teachings against sex in Judaism were probably put in place to control the population in regards to availible resources and to prevent the spread of disease (we know that syphillus did exist back then). And the Pauline and Petrine scriptures in the New Testament that adress the issue were written by men who NEVER met Christ while He was alive, hated women, and were certain that Christ would be returning within a short period of time (under 100 years).

Abstinence is fine for some, but we are told in the GOSPELS to not judge others. I would say that what other people do or don’t do in their bedrooms is none of your business.

By: steph w

steph w — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 05:22:37 +0000

I’m saving myself.

By: nosferatu

nosferatu — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 05:22:37 +0000

I’m saving it for the woman next door, she’s married.

By: Wooly CCSBSS

Wooly CCSBSS — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 05:22:37 +0000

Good for you, nothing wrong with that, it is your choice.

What you should never let happen, is for other people to influence you, just because other people screw around and take risks, it doesn’t mean that it is the thing to do.

Many guys n girls go through many sexual partners in search of what they cannot find by just having sex, and that is because love comes from your heart.