i adopted a 6 years old boy and i want to send him back to the orphange he came from. what should i do?
he didn’t meet our expectation of a son we had in mind. we just want to send him back or make him disappear for our lives.
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BS.
Go out and play-school startes next week!
My kids don’t always meet my expectations, either…that’s why we are parents. Deal with it and stop being a selfish jerk.
wow that is extremely cruel. What horrible people you are. Send him back now before you start to treat him badly. wow im in shock by this question.
you are a horrible person. what do you mean he doesnt meet YOUR expectations. maybe you dont meet HIS! ur cruel
dont send him back!!! thats mean youll ruin his life he’ll always wonder why you guys sent him back. your fucken messed up!! deal with him. fucken bi*ch
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TROLL!!
That is so sad,what did you expect from a six year old,He does not deserve to be there with you with the feelings you have toward him,he would be better off at the orphanage.How could you be so selfish?
Kids are not for Cherry picking. No kid is perfect and all of them have their own unique corks! You act like this and you do not deserve to be parents.
You are a sad person……….sad sad!!!
I suggest you get in touch with the orphanage and tell them that you are not happy and that you would like to return the child.
Sad for him or her now, but probably grateful in the end. Some foster parents have actually killed their adopted child because they could not stand them.
Before you become a criminal, return the child. There are many loving couple out there who have love and room in their heart and home for this child. Give him or her that oppertunity to be loved and cared for the way they deserve. If the child needs medical or other help, someone else will see that and will want to help.
This is the saddest thing I have ever heard. My tears go out to the 6 year old boy.
Oh goody, someone with a new account that wants to ask bogus questions. Yay for us.
your just sick how could you adopt a child and now you want to send him back hes not a toy you now where you can exchange him for another
That is so mean… I don’t understand why people do this to kids… Just because the kid doesn’t meant your expectation of what a kid is supposed to be doesn’t mean you should send him back.. I worked in a group home and so many parents did that to there kids and it is so wrong….. Because the kid does normal childhood stuff they send them away… Kids are kids not trash you give away…. It sounds like you never should have adopted the child in the first place… But you already did so maybe you should give him back before you ruin his life even more…..
Are you serious. I don’t think that you deserve a child in the first place. They aren’t like old toys, you just cant throw them out when you don’t like them anymore!!
You cannot just take a child and give him hope of having a normal family and then take it all away because he is not the perfect child. What do you think? That the orphange raises them for you and then you get a perfect child later on? Obviously you shouldnt even be parents if this is a dilemma for you!!! This is your responsibility to make this work for the kid and yourself. DO the right thing.
This must be Dennisons way of getting some attention!
Your wife should send you back and keep the 6 year old!
has to be a lie coz no adoption agency would let a moron like you adopt a child and I can’t believe anyone as pathetic as you would be able to con them into thinking you could make a good parent. crawl back under your rock, idiot.
Are you for real? No, I doubt that someone could be so mean. Thanks for the points though.
This is not some item of clothing you can just return because it’s not a good color for you! This is a human being and stop being so selfish!!! I am so infuritated by your question. What person would ever let you get approval to adopt a child?! You are so not worthy of the title mother or father. It would have been better that the little boy had never met you. Feel good that you are responsible for destroying the life of an innocent child.
I think you should think about how he has disappointed you, did he kill your cat or does he behave like a hyper 6 yo child? And also the wonderfulness of what you expect isn’t going to come right away. It takes time, he needs to adjust, just like you. It’s not like you can tell him to read and give him a treat. Wonder if your partner thinks you don’t meet their expectations
call the orphange and send him back, you 2 horrible people dont deserve to be parents, make sure you dont adopt another 1 either, you damn jerks!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You don’t need children… You are worthless mother. I have 3 children and they don’t always do what is expected of them but I would never ever ever turn them away. You are a horrible person. You will have to answer to God! But until then STAY AWAY FROM CHILDREN YOU TROLL!!!!!!!!
And what would you do if you had given birth to him and he "didn’t meet your expectations"? How did you ever get cleared for adoption in the first place? I suppose for the boy’s sake it would be best if you called the orphanage and admitted that you’re a couple of bottom-feeling losers after all and don’t deserve to be parents, that God was right all along in denying you parenthood, and how do you get this darling little boy into the hands of a family that truly deserves him and let you get on with your own self-centered lives.
Part of parenting is loving through all. We have adopted and it has been nothing like we have expected, but we would never send them back…that is really sad!
I’M SORRY BUT WHAT THE F**K IS WRONG WITH YOU HOW COULD YOU WANT TO DO THIS SOME BODY SHOULD GO AND SLAP THE CRAP OUT OF BOTH OF YOU AND WHAT MAKES YOU THINK THAT IF YOU SAY YOU WANT A TRADE IN THAT THEY WILL GIVE YOU ONE THATS NOT HOW IT WORKS
I have 4 adopted children. And I can definitely tell you what to do in this situation….
Pull your bottom lip over your head and swallow. You are a HORSE’S A$$.
go stand in traffic. don’t procreate. don’t try to raise ANYTHING. you’re too stupid.
(obviously this person is just trying to get a rise out of you parents, don’t buy it. get your 2 points from this fool like I did).