she said she loved me too.. and i believed her but now it’s hard to tell if she ever did. We only were serious for 3 months but we were hanging out and hooking up for 5. Ive already made all the mistakes of trying to get her back, acting needy, telling her i love her over and over, begging, to be honest i even tried to commit suicide over it and ended up in the hospital for a week.. Im better on that note but im still in love. I have been talking to her for a month and she is trying not to contact me but still talks to me when i need to. We never had an unhealthy relationship we broke up over a misunderstanding where she heard i hooked up with someone else so she did too the same night and started dating him right then and there, and than she found out i didn’t do that. She said while she was with him she still loves me and wants me back but couldnt bring herserlf to leave him. It’s killing me i want to spend my life with her. The problem is I had suspicions that she was hooking up with someone else so i didnt trust her and it lead to a couple fights and us breaking up 3 or 4 times and this drove her to think i didnt care. I realized she wasnt and i feel so bad. To make matters worse she had a rebound boy for about 3-4 weeks. He strook up a conversation with me and was begging me to tell him what she was saying to me. So sent part of our conversation and he FLIPPED, it was just about her caring about me and still having feelings. He dumped her. She got pissed at me and thinks its my fault. I tried to express how sorry I am and did not know that would happen. She now tells me there is no hope in us ever getting back together. That she just has major trust issues and it will take her very long to even think about trusting me again. I know I hurt her but she had geniuine feelings for me at one point I know this and I know they could come back, if they are gone. I just had a good conversation with her telling her that my love had changed for her and i still love her on the level that i will always care about her and i helped her with some problems in her life. I think shes greatful that she has me to confide in. Now im gonna break all contact for a while and work on myself. Im working with the magic of making up. Should i go through with this i really do love her and want her back in my life to show her what this really means to me. Do you think if i stick to a plan i have any chance at all? or is her mind made up about me. Can i bring back her trust by changing myself and showing her that I am strong and am able to fix things. Or is she always going to resent me leading her to the rash decision that we will never work out? Please, i appreciate all insight. By the way, im 17.. i may seem blind to you but i know i am in love. She still makes me happy even with the pain of this. Weve always made eachother happy.
i know i can move on and i’ll forget her but the thing is i dont want to and i know this..

READ THE WHOLE THING IF YOUR GONNA COMMENT CUS THATS WHAT YOU NEED TO DO TO UNDERSTAND THE WHOLE SITUATION.

even though you probably wont come close..

haha reading it for myself i probably sound a little out of my mind but i know il get along without her and meet someone else she just has special meaning to me and i can honestly say that noone else has done this for me.

all i want to know is two things, CAN I EVER GAIN HER TRUST BACK, and DO A STAND A CHANCE AT ALL

i know exactly what i need to do and im prepared to do it.. just dont wanna waste my time if it’s impossible…
i know i can move on and i’ll forget her but the thing is i dont want to and i know this..

READ THE WHOLE THING IF YOUR GONNA COMMENT CUS THATS WHAT YOU NEED TO DO TO UNDERSTAND THE WHOLE SITUATION.

even though you probably wont come close..

haha reading it for myself i probably sound a little out of my mind but i know il get along without her and meet someone else she just has special meaning to me and i can honestly say that noone else has done this for me.

all i want to know is two things, CAN I EVER GAIN HER TRUST BACK, and DO A STAND A CHANCE AT ALL

i know exactly what i need to do and im prepared to do it.. just dont wanna waste my time if it’s impossible…

thanks for the input though i really appreciate you taking the time to try and help. I also thank anyone who takes the time to really read this over and tries to understand what im going through. It means the world to me..


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