How do get over him if your still in love with him? But are still hurt from what he did to you but are upset?
My ex boyfriend and I broke up awhile ago, It’s been hard for me to get over him. Him and I dated for about 2 years and my junior and senior year of high school. He was a year older then I was and when i was a senior he went to away to college. He still came down to see me every friday and when he didn’t have a car I went up to see him every saturday. I loved him very much and I always thought we were going to get married. Even though we fought a lot I still very much cared for him. I would of done anything to make him happy. It’s been about 7 months since him and I have broken up. When he broke up with me I thought it would be just another break up and we’d get back togther like always. When we broke up I asked him if he’d be my prom date as friends. He said no so i went with someone else. When he found out he got mad and threaten my prom date. The next day of prom we started to talk again and i thought everything would be back to normal. We met up 2x and had sex. When i went away to vacation I didn’t bother to text him cause i was still hurt by him. He stopped texting me and one random night I found out he had a girlfriend on facebook. Little did i know his girlfriend would have gone to the same college as me. One night him and I decided to met at a park he told me that he was over me and wanted his promise ring and tiffany necklace back. I got very upset and i just gave it to him. He then broke up with his gf that he had. But during all this time him and I haven’t gone a month without talking to each other either by text or phone. Even though were not in good terms we would text each other random mean stuff. The other night he texted me telling me he has a new hot girfriend that he fucks all the time and has slept with 15 woman since me. It was a very random text. He then went on and started making fun of me but then asked me to send nude pics of myself. When i told him no that he has a gf and why would he want pics of me if he has a hot gf, He would respond by saying fine your right my gf is so much hotter. 5 min later he’d ask me again I then told him that his girlfriend would find out sooner or later because they always do. He told me ok and to stop texting him. I’ve only been with one other guy since him and it didn’t seem right. To me theres really no one else i’d want to be with but him but i dont forgive him for breaking my heart and sleeping with random sluts. I can’t help how my feelings are towards him. I was fine before he texted me last night and telling me how many woman his fucked after awhile I’ll be fine and not think about it as much but then he would text me some random nights. I dont know what to do, should i let him live his life? Or should i just stay single until i met someone new. give it time and see what happens? I asked his friend why he would tell me about him fucking woman randomly he told me that he is probably fucking with me and trying to make me jealous. He says that he is over me and doesnt want me in his life but why would he care to make me jealous? Do you think he still has feelings for me? Guys are so complicated! I do not know what to do HELP PLEASE 
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He is a creep. And I thought my ex was bad. It shouldn’t matter if he still has feelings for you look at what he has done to you! He is immature, petty, vindictive, and jealous.
If he wants you at all it is just for sex! Trust me, I have been there.
Stay single, don’t have anything to do with him, don’t call, don’t text.
Google sites on "stages of a broken heart" it will help you understand what you are going through step by step. You’ll notice though that you wont go through the stages one at a time like these sites talk about. You’ll go from loving him, to hating him, missing him, to feeling sorry for him, wanting him back, then being angry again all in a matter of a few hours. Pretty soon it will be less and less that you will have to experience this roller coaster of emotions. Then one day you will notice hmm… "I am not thinking about him much anymore" Then hopefully you can remember him with fondness and the "longing" will no longer haunt you.
Also google "letting go" AND come here and write about it! Talk about it until you are sick of hearing yourself talking about it! I have done these things and they worked for me. Though it will not happen overnight, so be easy with yourself. Find new friends and new hobbies and fun things to do. Keep yourself busy with YOUR life! YOU are what matters most.
The neckless and promise ring should have been yours to keep, he broke up with you, he did not keep his promise! If you were the one who broke up with him, then I would have said give the ring back but keep the neckless because it was a gift! This is an example of his immaturity and pettiness
I didint read it all but it sounds like hes just a player… if he really wanted back with you hed be back with you. I know it hurts but give it time and do everything you can to not think of him at ALL. gl
guys are very simple creatures. jst some are jerks and some arent. he’s a jerk. there is a reason they are called ex boy friends. you x them out and move on to the dating scene to fine the better match for you. if it didnt work the first time, odds are it wont if you try to date him again. people dont change unless they truely want to. and he doesnt sound like the type to change at all. Find someone worth spending time with. Good Luck
Your in a pickle u might want to shorten that or else you get like no answers or ppl just reply dumb and my advice to is move on been there done that guys like that when u wait around less intrested they become you can do better hun
I did not read everything. I stopped when you said junior year…..
you are so young. Why over think this part of your life with relationships.
I just told another person…..
treat dating and realationships at your age as a school for the real world.
when you meet the right guy… and you have lots of time…. you both will know it.
Oh and guys at your age are not complicated…. they want one thing from you…. you know what that is…..
you own it and they want it….. guys at your age are simple.
Yep it sounds like hes just screwing with your head.
Your probably better off without him.
Ive never done anything like that to any of my ex’s, so not all guys are complicated.
He just wants you to be jealous and make you feel like crap.
There is absolutely no reason for him to tell you that he has slept with 15 women since you.
Thats just some kind of verbal and mental abuse. Thats actually pretty messed up.
Forget about him, wait till you meet somebody better than him…
Sorry about the situation tho…
Just get over him. You don’t deserve that kind of pain
yes it definitely does seem like hes a player. Or that he doesn’t like the fact that you found out he cheated on you. You should let people like him slide. Too much heartbreak because if you got back together again, he could always do the same thing. And that would be too much heartbreak. Theres plenty of fish in the sea like they say :]
theres also a poem that’s related to your story its not a poem but a quote,"its hard to keep telling your mind to stop loving someone when your heart still does."
is that the case ? do you still love him? if it is the case, like they say follow your heart.
but keep an eye on this one bcuz something seems not right……..
I know it may be hard, but you just have to let go. He is a real asshole, texting you telling you those things.. He’s just trying to hurt you even more, he must be sick in the head. Don’t text him period, and if he texts you just ignore it, in time you will heal. Just try to push im to the back of your mind and focus on other, more important things in your life. It takes time, but you will be okay! And i know we dont now each other, if you ever need someone to talk to, im here just drop me and e mail or something!! I’m all ears and would be happy to help if i can!!
first of all my husband is on two years probation for sending a picture of only his lower region much less his whole body, it is illegal even if its mutual consent and second, girl he is the biggest player ive heard about in a long time, no matter what happens let him go its not worth picking up an std because u love someone, every time u have sex with someone u give a piece of ur heart, why would u want to keep givin when all he wants to do is take? he sounds like he has tendancies to get abusive and that he is really controlling, dont take the chance of becoming a victim, if u cant get over him on ur own check out councelling im prayin for u
Please do not go back with him. He texted you that he slept with 15 women. Now, that’s a no no. If I were in your shoe. I would never go back even if he asked to do it. Who wants to be with him anyways and sleeping with all this women. How sick. Anyways, don’t text him, don’t call him, don’t email him. Its over. There’s nothing you can do since he’s acting like that and doing with women. Let’s say you did went back with him and don’t you think that he can break up with you again. So, just leave him alone and move on.
he is probably lieing about doing all those girls. or maybe he thought the life of college parties would be better for him, and he realized he was wrong and still loved you but was embarrassed after everything he said and didnt want to say it. maybe he was drunk texting you that? (people say your true feeligns come out when your drunk) maybe it was a different girl textng you? or maybe it was him and his friends being douchebags and texting you that to mess with your because they think your upsessed with him? there are alot of things. i my self being a guy, gave you my opinions. I personally could not do that to someone, its just not me, seems like your boyfriend was changed with college, he wanted parties, and not to be tied down with some high school girl he hardly sees. i guess im not that good at giving relation ship advice..(my first and so far only girlfriend was in 7th grade, im 16 and am a sophmore. mostly its becuase the girls at my school arent mature or worth time because they are verry annoying.) but i think i have good common sense, and i say what i would do in the situation. i would say find someone new. he seeems likea big douche. give it time, dont talk to him, the more you talk to him the more you think of him meaning the more you want him back. wait awhile and find somoene new. i know you will. good luck i hope my advice was good.
Love doesn’t hurt and this guy is nothing but a game player. He seems very manipulative and he knows he can control you so he plays you like a chess game. The best way to get over someone like this is realize what you deserve and let me tell you once you realize what you deserve you will see that this guy is just hurting you and someone who loves you won’t do that.
The crappy part is once you move on you might question yourself and ask why you let someone treat you like that. Been there done that.
Good guys are not complicated but straight to the point. I think you really should just move on and more importantly focus on loving yourself.
Good luck.