After you've lied to your girlfriend, will she ever see you as the same guy she fell in love with?
I made the stupid mistake of lying to my girlfriend. We’ve made up, but she told me that it will take a while for her to trust me again. I understand completely. But whenever the topic comes up in conversation she tells me "I will be able to trust you again soon." I thought that trust was something that just "happens", not something you plan for. And even if she ever does trust me again, will she ever look at me and see the guy that she fell in love with in the first place?
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It’s not ever quite the same, but she’ll get over it.
My boyfriend did some major lying to me and we broke up, then got back together. He’s told me the truth about what was going on when we broke up and I completely forgave him and I love him, but when the subject comes up, I’m still hurt and sometimes angry.
I’m not sure about your last question because I fell in love with my boyfriend while all the crap was going on and it made us stronger.
BUT, she will trust you again just giver her a little time
And whenever the subject comes up, in her mind she will probably question you 
but keep working at it and I wouldn’t recommend lying to her again.
NOPE! It will never be the same as it was befor innocence was lost. All you can do is pray for forgiveness and give her time to let go of the painful memory of your lie! Hopefully she can move on, but it depends on how strong she is. You have no control in this situation.
Depends on what you lied about. If it was something small then I don’t think she will have a problem looking at you the same way again eventually. But if lied to her as in like, cheated on her or something, then that’s totally different.
probably not, because trust is the most important thing in the world, as far as i know. she probably won’t because she’s thinking that you were the nice sweet guy who didn’t lie to her but after this she might think your a liar of some sort. i think also part of it deals w/ what you lied about to her.
I think it mostly depends on what you lied about.
When my boyfriend lied to me about what he was doing, I got over it rather quickly and forgot about it.
When my boyfriend lied to me about another woman, it took me months to think about looking at him the same way.
After realizing how often my ex lied to me, I never wanted to even look at him again.