Can this marriage be saved?
I’m 21 yrs old he is 22 we’ve been married for 7 months and it seems like all we do is argue sometimes about the stupidest things and sometimes really bad yelling at each other. When we first got married he was looking at porn while I was gone for work( he was on vacation) and I told him I didnt like that. He stopped and even asked me to block everything for him. I noticed because we are very active sexually and all of a sudden he wouldnt be interested at all, it would bother him if I touched him, thats how I knew something was up. That was about 6 months ago, it stopped and now I feel like it’s happening again( work is very slow now, so he has to stay home here and there) I get home he feels uncomfortable if I touch him or whatever, but porn is blocked on the computer, the phone records only have numbers I know, we live in an apartment with only way older people that leave to work everyday and we never talk to them, he plays xbox all day yes, which doesnt bother me, and when i come home the house is clean and sometimes he cooks dinner. I dont know whats going on, why is he acting this way. I try and try to talk to him and he says "all this accusing is killing us baby" he only wants to make love once at night which is ok, but I know my man and even when he works out in the sun all day, we both come home and have 2-3 times before bed.
He loves me and I love him, but I feel like something is going on and I dont know what to do? he says "stop accusing me of shit I aint doing" and stuff like that, he doesnt get really angry, only if I start crying or something gets him frustrated….I want this to workout but he says he feels like he cant make me happy, im constanly accusing him and nagging him. I try to be a good wife to him, we go out on the weekends to dance movies or whatever, it’s just that every time he stays home alone, he looses interest in sex with me…….PLEASE HELP ANYONE!! I WANT TO SAVE MY MARRIAGE!
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Its all in your imagination, you even said it "every time he stays home" the guy is home and you are thinking that he is either with someone or doing something nasty, its all in your head, you are digging your own grave and you better stop before this guy had enough of your nagging and leave you.
do you know how many women would kill to get it once a day, probably even once a week for some. i don’t either i wanted it more than once a day at that age too. but now once a day is plenty. i’m 52 now
you guys are so young to be married. who are you? who is he? how well do you know each other. i advise going to couples therapy. the nagging and stuff is serious stuff. i had many encounter with my ex about this. i later saw her insecurities and jealousy come out. we went to therapy and discovered we really didn’t know each other well enough to be married. too many differences. but we found that out in therapy. go to your community center, pastor or city agency,or health insurance and find a therapists to help you. if he refuses, then you go. however, in the mean time. if he tells you nothing is going on and you don’t have any proof, back off. the truth always comes out. by accusing or nagging you will only push him away further. good luck
Probably your problem might be inexperience. You guys are pretty young (21 and 22 years old), maybe you just need some more time to make things work.
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