I left my boyfriend of 3 yrs most recently and I think I want him back but I already have a new guy. Which 1?
So I left my old boyfriend because I felt that he didn’t have ambition anymore. He’s a high school drop out with a dead end job and no dreams of doing anything better. So, I went out and I got me a new man, but he has his own flaws. For one he’s in the middle of getting divorced and two he has a son on the way, and three he has no job. I know that at one time I loved my old boyfriend and I still want him back sometimes and I still care about him, but this new guy is sweet and has the ambition I’ve been needing. They both have their ups and downs and I’m not sure what to do. Please help me!!!
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First of all, with your description, I perceive you don’t want your boyfriend of 3 years even though you say you still care about him, but it’s just the hassles of life your current guy is going through. It’s natural to think of like that, because there are so many troubles in life and the moment we have to face a certain situation, our first reaction is to run away and if left with no choice, then fight. i think you should stay with your current guy, be the pillar of strength, love and comfort to him and I’m sure you guys would be happy for a long time.
cheers and good luck!
why not get both?
neither… both are dead beats…. so find a man with a job and no wife…. so he can give you all the things you need in life including a nice home for your family… these two are both trouble. So get a book about getting yourself out of a rut and focus on attracting good men.. but first you have to improve yourself because your attracting losers.
good luck
Move on with you’re life and don’t dread on the past…. If the new guy isn’t pleasing you, MOVE ON and find another one.
I bet they both do have their ups and downs….on YOU!
You sure know how to pick a looser dont you?? Why not get a man that’s NOT married and has a job?
start a fresh,and stop trying so hard to find someone to meet all of your expectations as he doesent exist,when you meet mr right he will still have flaws but you will be able to live with them and that’s the difference if you love him you accept his imperfections it seems to me both of these guys are not the one for you