how to get ur ex back if she just want to freinds because she is scared of being hurt and being in love for th?
ok now this is problerly ever ones question how to get back with the ex and i no its possible but in my situation is it?
ok i meet my girl in january and every week after that once a week we go out on a date and then i asked her out on valentines day for dinner she said yes .
that nite was supposed to be the last nite cause she was to leave for uni
but i had the same day off as she did and she was really happy that i would still see her ( b4 that she cried as she drove off that nite from dinner) but when i told her i could come a couple days later she was happy
ok then she would take me around the city walk t the beach u no swet stuff and about two months later i asked her out and she said yes
im her first relationship and same with me
i live an hour away i always go by train
but we spent the most together
she is a shy girl and scarefull off getting hurt due to her freinds after a bad break up but read on and i get into that
all her freinds tell me how happy they are how i treat her and respect her and she lovesme and it was a big thing for her to say it because she never feels that way for any one like that before this was around the 5 month mark.
i understand being in uni and living on campus wat can be like with the fun and immaturity and all but i trusted her.
she never really explained how she felt directly but threw art
for example at 6 months she sketched a potrait of us together close to be thats has to mean sum thing
and two months later she sketched another picture of us two at our favorite spot us us alone in detail of the area ( one month before we broke up)
i see her once a week because i dont mind seeing her in the week end but caz im a chef i finish really late around 11.30 u mite say thats early but by the time i get home 12.00 shower and all 12.20 then drive there 1.20am do u no any one who is willing tio wait to see there bf or gf at that time and wait for that person while all ur freinds are out and having fun…………?
but any way i was with her and she looked up set i said wat up
i just want to be freinds i dont feel for u the way u feel for me ( this was 10 months period
im think is oit stressed from uni
influnce from the freinds ike come on he isnt here have fun there plenty guys here and so on
two weeks later when i went up there 9 finially droved )
when we were talking i didnt mean to say i wont give u a second chance
i said if we go into a deep freind shi[p there may not be a second chance
she was teary and saying " i could understand why u wouldnt give me a second chance
that indicated some sort of stress or a choice she made based on freinds
but the nite was stranged her moods and feelings were changing like
so i asked u going to tell ur parents
again teary n saying when i fell like it
she did meantion to me once that she was scared and i re insureed her that i never hurt her
is it possible to fall in love get scared then change into freindship love or if ur parnter is scared then breaks it off how would u go about it to get her back if u really love her
im trying not to think the worse that she cheated on me acciently and broke it off in case i found out ?
because every time i go up to her room shhe didnt mind who saw me
but the day we broke up she said hurry up i dont wanyt people to see u come in ? why would u say that after 10 months
any ways has any one got back with the ex and how did u went about it would it work for me ?
also would it be possible that she may have acciently cheated due to peer pressure and she broke it off b4 i found out
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Be really nice to her and show her that you care before asking her out again
just say ur sorry
and say your not ready for a boyfriend
and say lets be friend
Sounds like something is going on and I surely don’t know what and to speculate would only hurt you for no reason so I would just have a sit down with her out in the open and find out what it is. Let her know exactly how you feel and the change that you have seen in her. It’s best to know now.