How do you get your man back after a separation instigated by him ?
We both have 3 kids each. We have had a very strong, intense and fun year long relationship. We have a lot in common. He is a wonderful man.We have both broached the topic of combining our families. But, the logistics has been daunting. It is causing him anixities. He has 2 smaller children. As a result he has fear of being abandoned by me – I have older children and I am not as tied down as he is.
About a week ago his attitude and behavoir changed and he said he needs time and space to think about this relationship and what he really wants. I have held back some of my emotions as well, because I was not sure about settling down with 2 smaller children.
But over the past week, I have realized I have stronger feelings for him and would be willing to do what it takes to combine our family. How do I address his anxities without being overbearing and get back what we had.
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Talk to him and tell him how you feel, then ask him what is making him 2nd guess things and either try and fix the problem now or what until you’s come across the problem.. If you really want him fight for him and get in your car now and go and see him or ring him but don’t let him get away. Obviously you know how you feel about him now and the time apart has made you realise that you want him in your life so go and let him know how you feel.
HA! move on.
work with it
let him have time to think
then maybe tell him ur feelings about the whole thing, and that ur willing if he is
if its meant to work it will
good luck