My girlfriend just broke up with me for her ex.. how can i get her back?
We were dating for around 7 months and everything was going great! sex was good, we communicated great, and we just made each other happy! Than one day when i was texting her she tells me that she has a class with her ex boyfriend, her most serious relationship before she met me. than while talking a few days later she breaks up with me.. out of no where!! i didnt even see it coming. apparently this guy told her that he still loves her and how sorry he was for cheating on her. so whether or not they will get back together i dont know, but im guessing they are if she could just leave me like that.. any advice to get her back!!?? its been a week and im going crazy! 
I mean i know im only in grade 12, but i honestly thought this was the girl i could marry! she keeps telling me that she still loves me and cares for me, but she needs to get her head straight or some BS.. anyways if u could give me some words of advice that would be great!!!
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I’ve been that girl, so this is coming from the other side of things. I broke up with my ex for my fiance who I am with now. The exception is, my fiance NEVER cheated on me. I went back to him because when we first met we were both too young to do anything about the feelings we had for each other. Furthermore, I left my ex for all the RIGHT reasons…our relationship was not where it should have been after years of being together. After the break up, I moved on and it was hard for my ex who did not see it coming (as you described above). But, he moved on…he has loved other women…been in relationships (sexual, etc.) with other women and is content with who he is. Even though it hurts now, this might be for the best…give it some time to decide if getting back with her is motivated more because she left you and the shock is driving you to want her back as opposed to moving on.
Also, consider the fact that if she left you for an ex that cheated, she has some self-esteem problems that need to be resolved before she will ever be able to function appropriately in a relationship. When someone cheats on you and then wants you back, every instinct tells you that they have learned their lesson and that you are worthy of being with them. Basically, she is getting a second chance at a relationship that she probably didn’t choose to end (him cheating made that decision for her). She is going back because chances are she has no idea what motivated the cheating in the first place or why she was left in the lurch by someone she cared about.
It all boils down to this…you probably are more inclined to want her back right now because you never wanted to let her go…she probably left you because she never wanted her ex to cheat on her and let her go. Moving on and finding someone who is confident enough in themselves not to go back to a cheating ex is probably your best bet. Just a suggestion. Good luck!
just move on..
you are still young..
you shouldn’t even be thinking about marriage..
i’m in 12th grade too and i kind of know how you feel when someone leaves you for their ex
Move on man. If she could just dump you like that she does not love you. If you were to get her back she would just do it again.
Honestly.. and this is not to sound mean, but if she went back to him after being with you for that long she was never truly happy. The best advice I can give you is move on, stay friends with her because as you can tell she can make decisions on who she likes in an instant and drop the guy she’s with without ever thinking about who she hurts. I don’t know if you can get her back immediately, but you have college coming up, and you will meet girls who will make you forget all about her.
Maybe she still has feelings for the guy and he is not back in her life yet but he is trying and she is a little confused because she likes you to. Still stick around as her friend and maybe she see this guy for what he really is. Don’t force her just be around for her. If she asks for space give it to her.
this girl isnt worth your love then , if she left you once for him then she could do it again and also its for the best that she left you because she could have ended up cheating on you with that guy , theres better women out there for you anybody agree ????
Show her how much you care. dont butt into her relationship but make her notice your understandingness…say hi to her in the halls! just show her how coooly u can handle the situation. maybe she’ll realize she likes you better. YOU’RE not the one who cheated on her (I hope.)
haha. wow, hes gonna cheat on her again. and shes gonna come running back. dont come back to her, shes an idiot too
You don’t get her back. She doesn’t love you. Move on
She never got over him, and I really hate to say it but you were the rebound. I honestly think you should move on.
Honestly she’s not worth it if she can just dump you at the drop of the hat when her cheating ex comes back in to her life and says he loves her. She’s also really selfish for dumping you for the ex, and then telling you she still loves you. If she LOVED you she wouldn’t have run back into the arms of her ex.
Which, speaking of the ex, I feel bad for her. She’s very clearly not over him, which is apparent and also, he cheated on her. "I’m sorry" is not the solver of this problem. If he did it to her once, and she takes him back, he’s going to do it to her again, and it’ll be her own fault for being played, used, and cheating on AGAIN.
She threw out a great thing with you for a piece of trash who treated her like a pile of crap. Some girls are really stupid and don’t learn, and she’s one of those girls, sorry to say.
Honestly, WHY do you want her back? She has so much emotional baggage and feelings left for her ex! She dumped you! For the ex! That cheated on her! Why do you want to be someone’s second rate boyfriend? She doesn’t have you first on her list of priorities, this other guy is! And the fact that he can show up in her life, say a few sweet nothings and he has her wrapped around his finger again is a HUGE red flag. This girl needs to figure out what she wants and then she needs time ALONE to get over this person. She didn’t take that time for herself and I’m sorry, you wound up her rebound.
I really say, step away from this situation and stop chasing her. She left you, she clearly chose him right now over you. Keep your dignity because you still have it. But if you start groveling and begging and looking desperate you’ll look really pathetic.
I really think she ended it b/c she loves this ex. If she was completely happy with you, in love with you, totally into your relationship she wouldn’t have dumped you. End of story. I say move on, even though you say you were going to marry her, you are VERY young and your ideas of what you want in a woman will change DRASTICALLY within the next few years. Trust me.
Just wait for her to come crawling back to you. But maybe she didn’t think it was all that great of a relationship…? I don’t know.. If the sex was better you know she’ll be back
same thing happend to me except that she only went out with me for 4 days and her ex never cheated on her, what i did or what im doing right now is dat basically told her on the day that i graduated that i hope they last, and if they dont dat ill always be there as a freind, i also said other stuff that i kno got in her skin, but lets not get into details.