Will My Ex-Bf Come Back?
Will my Ex-Bf come back or contact me if I use no contact?
I have read a lot of articles and even books where people recommend going “No Contact” so that your ex misses you and wants you back.
I am trying desperatly trying to get my ex-bf back. I miss him SO much. He got scared of how strong our feelings were for each other so quickly and basically got freaked out and ran. (he had been single for 2 years before we got together).
I tried calling and texting and trying to get him to talk about things but it just seems to be scaring him more.
Does “no contact” work???
(Will that give him a chance to second-guess his decision and miss me?)
Please share your experience & advice…. I would LOVE to hear it…. THANKS!!
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It will do one of two things: it will make him realize how much he misses you and MAYBE he will come back; or 2) he will realize how much happier he is now that he is no longer in a committed relationship.
My personal experience with guys who "freak out" when a relationship is getting serious is that he really never wanted to get serious with me in the first place.
How about you think A LOT about what freaked him out. Bullet point it: 1, 2, 3…
Then maybe write him a SHORT and sweet e-mail, address each of these bullet points CONCISELY (how you can change/how you’ve changed/how you’ve given him the wrong impression) and let him know you are perfectly ok with whatever his decision is. He needs to feel that he has his freedom, that you don’t cling to him.
But you have to be ok with whatever he’ll decide. No matter how hard to accept that, he may not want to get back with you. Can’t force it! You need to accept it as a mature person and respect his feelings. How would you feel if the table were turned and a guy just wouldn’t let go of you??? Wouldn’t you freak out?
Just as someone else has said before, it has nothing to do with you but he may just NOT be ready for a real, serious relationship. Why do people assume we’re all ready, all the time? I’m a girl and believe me, I’m not ready. I guess people may believe they are…just to discover they aren’t. In the process, they end up hurting others, unintentionally:(
You have to be able to give him the impression that you DON’T need him too much. Better yet, change yourself so that you really don’t need him.