How do I get my ex boyfriend to leave me alone?
I broke up with my boyfriend of 22 months in October of 2009. Since then I have continued to break up with him 4 more times. Keep in mind, we haven’t been a couple since October. We’re not breaking up and getting back together and then breaking up. I broke up with him but he just won’t accept it. He even told him once that he thought we were just ‘taking a break.’ I never said that. I said that I didn’t want to be with him and that I never wanted to see/talk to him again. A least once a month since October he will call/ email/ text me, saying that he’s sorry and that he misses me. I have told him at least 6 times to leave me alone. I asked him nicely not to contact me any more and told him very rudely to leave me alone. I have told him that I have a new boyfriend ( I don’t have a new bf) , hoping that would deter him; it didn’t. Then I told him that I cheated on him with the new ‘boyfriend.’ That worked for a few weeks. Then he emailed me to say that he could forgive me for cheating if I would just take him back. I have cussed him out and said some pretty horrible things to try to get him to leave me along but a few weeks later he’ll contact me. I am looking for a job right now and I have a ton of resumes/ application circulating with my # and email address on them so I don’t want to change my number/email and miss out on a job interview. I don’t know what to do! He’s not threatening me or anything, its just really annoying and frustrating. Please help me!!
I’ve been screening my calls because he calls me from different numbers. Now I don’t answer any ‘blocked’ or unknown numbers. When I don’t respond to his emails/texts he keeps texting/emailing me until I tell him to leave me alone. Then I won’t hear from him for a month or so and then the whole cycle starts over again.
And I’m not going to give him a break, he lied to me and cheated on me. He deserves to feel like crap!!
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i had a similar situation with an ex boyfriend that i had dated on and off and the best way to let him know that your over him is to just ignore him and don’t respond to anything he sends you. Change his ring tone to a silent one on your phone so you don’t hear it when he calls and on email you should mark his email address as spam so it wont go into your in-box. i hope it helps
bob
buck shot to the face should do the trick
change your number or hey maybe you could try not picking up the phone!.
Run him over with a car…he’ll get the hint.
Threaten him with a restraining order and if the threat doesn’t work follow through.
i didn’t read any of your story, but I know that you just have to be firm. call the police if he keeps bugging you.
You’re such a jerk.
But..
restraining order.
just tell him to eff off or you’ll file a restraining order.
Do not talk to him, to not answer his calls, texts, e-mails, anything. Do not look at him, completely ignore him, got it.
well give him a break
try to be in his shoes
it must be hard to accept that someone you were once intimate with want absolute zero contact
it is heartbreakining
Girl, use this to you’re advantage. Men can’t stand a begging woman. Tell him things like I’ll go out with you if you give me 100 dollars and keep begging and begging (make him give it to you) until he realizes that you’re not in love with him anymore. He’ll leave you alone!
Just ignore him. He will get tired or better yet tell him someone you know loves him.
Blank him. To put it simply.
Don’t answer his calls/texts/emails/whatever. Remove him from your MSN/Facebook/etc. Just cut him off completely. You’ve gave him his answer, and he simply isn’t accepting it. Ignore him if he tries knocking on the door for you, or whatever.
If he’s this badly attached, please bear in mind he may have a mental/psychological problem, and that’s why he’s insanely attached. Tell someone who knows him to maybe get a counsellor. Don’t go getting the Police involved unless he starts threatening or stalking you.
i mean obviously he doesn’t care what you do he’s gonna keep on coming back. just don’t reply at all. i know that sound like something an adult would say but trust me i’ve had something similar happen and i did everything to get him off my back but until i stop replying he left me alone. but it’s gonna take a few days till he realizes that you won’t respond.
i dealt with the same situation for almost 2 years i like the responses of fishperson and ? they’re the best answers my ex also cheated & lied we were friends for 4 yrs then he kissed me took my virginity we were together for 8 months after 3 months he was acting strange he denied cheating when i would confront him last 2 months he cuts me off i found out he had been cheating & i dumped him(through his voicemail) few months after he txts twice to take him back 1st no then i said ok found out he was still w that girl dumped him again he txts & wont stop (dumps girl & admitts he cheated w 2 girls ) we’re together, friends, friends w benefits he’s dating wants a relationship w me but wont stop dating or bugging me each time i left him finally he chose dating i said ok bye a month goes by & hes txtin me again wants to take me out i say no i have a boyfriend already just leave me alone he doesnt we argue i say ok then i changed my # i really did/do still have a boyfriend.