Guys, how can I get back with my ex boyfriend?
Me and My ex boyfriend are juniors in highschool. He broke up with me back in July after being in a relationship for 9 months mostly because I was VERY clingy. We were extremely close to eachother and our familys and we both really loved eachother. The breakup was rough especially for me since I was the one who got dumped and it was totally unexpected. We had no communication for almost 4 months until we started talking again back in november and now we hangout at least once a week. We still kiss eachother and "hookup" and when we’re together he treats me as if im still his girlfriend, he pays for me whenever we go out, cuddles with me, and he isn’t afraid to kiss me at school or in front of his close friends, he even holds my hand in public. I finally brought it up that I’m starting to have feelings for him again last night after we spent the night together and he took me home and i started to cry because i told him i still care for him and have feeling for him, he listened to me and said he needed to think. So today i talked to him and asked him if he had thought about what i said last night and he said "Yeah.. I do have feelings for you but I don’t want a relationship with you not yet at least, I need to figure things out." is this a good thing? how can i get him back ? :/
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You are clingy. The guy wants space so respect that and give it to him. Not only that, I think it’s also prickish that he keeps leading you on into think that you two might get back together by acting like you’re both together again (i.e. kissing, holding hands, hugging) yet he ‘needs to figure things out’. It seems like he putting a leash on you so you won’t go anywhere while he seens greener pastures. I think it’s best that you do the same. Go and figure things out. And don’t kiss him anymore. You’re only hurting yourself.
So you were together, broke up and then didn’t see eachother, then basically turned into friends with benefits kind of thing. He’s getting all the perks of a relationship, but with it being official or the committment and responsibility. I say, stop doing that, and see what happens.
you can’t
Sounds like he likes you, but he basically just wants to be a friend with benefits. The "I need to figure things out" is what makes me think he just wants to be friends with benefits, and not in a real relationship.
You’re being owned. He doesnt want a relationship with you. To put it short and crude, he just wants to phuck you. However, I saw that he likes to hold your hand in public. If this is true, than that would mean differently because friends with benefits dont normally publically display that kind of affection. Ill be your boyfriend, and you can have my 300C