What are the most effective tactics to win my ex boyfriend back, who is with someone else now.?
I met this guy when i was 24 and am now 30yrs, we keep on breaking and making up, i love him so much but he keeps breaking up with me for other women and then when he breaks up with them he comes back to me, wat could the reason, does he come back to be comforted, does he realy love me because right he seeing this other woman who knows that iam the g/friend and she says she is the fiance. i do not want lose him, how do i get him back forever and get married to him. He told me he wanted to marry me after i found out about the other woman i desided to give time but that other woman has capitalised on that, wat should i do ? Because the other girl is now always at his place. I hav tried to ask him he doesnt say anything and his close friends who are also my friends denied the issue of him marrying her saying they are just dating but the girl says he is marrying her, wat could be the truth. Plz help
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what on earth are doing with this guy? He keeps leaving you for other women? And you are still clinging on to his coat tails. Have some dignity for yourself. He leaves because he thinks the grass is greener( e.g there is someone out there he thinks may be better than you) then comes back when that doesn’t work out until he meets someone else. You are blaming the other woman for "capitalising" on that. What about him? This guy thinks you are a fool and will continue to treat you like one until get a bit of self respect and tell him where to go! You deserve so much better than this treatment – and the worse thing is you are allowing him to continue to treat you like a doormat.
sleep with his best frnd
Forget it!!! What he is doing to you now he will continue to do in the future. Go find someone worth your while.
You’re like the comfortable lap dog that is always there for him. If you ask me, you should just move on, how many times do you have to be played before you realize you are being used. At a minimum, brush him off and see what he does, but in your heart, you have to be willing to just say no. He’ll never stick around if he knows that he can play and still have you waiting for him.
This guy is a mess! He can’t commit to anyone. The girl he is with now won’t be around for long, he’ll be cheating on her soon too.
Here’s my advice – MOVE ON. GET A LIFE. Find a guy who will give you what you deserve not one who can’t commit and cheats all the time. Don’t marry this guy, he’s a loser. You will have a terrible marriage and when you get divorced you will be older and there will be less men to choose from.
And you know what? Let him marry that girl – they will have a terrible marriage anyway b/c the guy is a mess and can’t commit. Let her be his pansy, you’re too smart for that..
First of all….You should take some TIME for yourself. Examine what you have said and you will find that HE IS NOT READY to marry you or ANYONE. He is immature (don’t take offense) but his actions and words shine the spotlight on the fact that HE IS!!!! You find out about the other woman…(he gets caught)…you confront him….he then says HE WANTS TO MARRY YOU….you give him some time….during this time HE GOES BACK TO HER….as Dr Phil would say…WAKE UP, BE REAL….lol….I am NOT saying he wants HER more than you…I am just saying he is NOT MARRIAGE MATERIAL, right now anyway….You should do NOTHING but be yourself. If that wins his heart then great…if not…you don’t want to manipulate or bamboozle someone into a situation that they REALLY may not want to be in….it’s like thinking it might be cool to put a strait jacket on….someone puts it on you, you see what it feels like….then you HATE IT because you only THOUGHT you wanted to be in this situation….make sense??
If he’s fluctuating like a bulb,just dump him.I know.it may be hard for yuo,but that’s the best and the wisest way.