Anyone ? please help me? Im really scared of it .?
I am a christian .
There’s two guys , both of them , they do really love me , and they wanted me to be they girlfriend very eagerly but seriously , after my broken relationship , I had no more confident in love and I dont seems , any guys are right for me . So I just asked them in a very kind way , not to wait me , find somebody else you love . I wont know how long am I going to recover in my previous broken relatioship but they refused too! both of them are willing to wait for me and I found it really very annoyed me! I started to ignored them and I doesnt really care for it . Isnt a sin to ignored people in this kind of way ?
I doesnt feel guilty for them but I felt guilty for god , anyway to help me get rid of this guilty?
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Your problem have nothing to do with god but them.
Don’t make things worst by pulling in God to your partnership life. Just handle it in your own ways. Trust yourself, you can find a solution.
Until you really can’t shake them off than you can ask God for wisdom to tackle the problem.
If you are feeling guilty than there is a conviction of the Holy Spirit that you are out of track. Probably you are the caused of it. Be very open to yourself. The worst of a person is to lie to them self . The problem will only get bigger. I’m not implicating that you lie to yourself or are the caused of it but to let you be aware that we always try to look at ourselves as not the root of the problem.
Hope it helps.
i really dont know what to say
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Pray.
Ask yourself, would I want to marry either one? The reason for this is that dating is preparation for marriage.
Sounds as though you need to take care of grammar and spelling before anything else.
no its not a sin, if they refuse to leave you alone, what more can you do? eventually you will have to ignore. how long will it take you to recover from your previous relationship? i can’t answer that. i dont know the measurements of your past relationship. obviously time and support is the best medicine. its best to move on with someone else WHEN you are fully recovered.
Well, first of all – why do two guys love you at the same time? are you cheating on one of them?
and chances are, if God is working your conscience and you feel guilty – you probably did the wrong thing. the guys love you enough to wait for you. tell them how you REALLY feel, like how you told everyone in this message.
If you are not encouraging them, then you have no part in their behaviors and choices. If you are in any way encouraging either of them: Stop it.
In any case, why don’t you post this to an appropriate section, like Singles & Dating ?
If you’re not ready for a serious relationship right now, I think you did the best and kindest thing by "setting them free" to find someone else. You were honest and serious. The rest is up to them. I think that the only way to show them that you mean what you say is to "ignore" them. Not in a mean way, but in a definite way to show them that you mean business and you’re moving on. Unless you’re in a place where you can’t help seeing them, I’d try not to run into them at all.
As long as you’re not being mean, I am sure that God understands why you have to do this. Ask the Lord for guidance in what you say and do, and for joy in Him.
you shouldl just tell them you are not ready to start datingne so they should just move on anleaveav you alonbecausese there making it harder for you to start back dating no aftar wat you do you should never give up on love because maybe one day it will com knocking for you and it will be the right person you have been giving up on !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!