If want to get my ex boyfriend back, should I ignore his text messages or respond to them?
Is it being rude if I ignore them…its not that I don’t want to talk to him but I just feel like by responding he always has the comfort of knowing that I am right there. I thought maybe if I did not respond-it may make them think that I am moving on that he will lose me. Sometimes people don’t realize what they have until its gone. Yes I know that he is an ex for a reason but the reason we broke up is because he couldn’t commit to me. We were together for 2 years and are on good terms now…its been over a year since we broke up and I still love him. Please give me advice regarding the text question… Thanks 
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Hello
Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
if you desire to get your ex back try following these steps:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of these negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can’t achieve a goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you don’t want them..
2.Don’t bother your ex boyfriend. Boys just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously make phone calls to him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it will be great to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and eating healthy. When on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.However, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).
You can learn about one of the best and most popular guides on how to get your ex boyfriend back in this blog:
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I hope that you will get your ex boyfriend back soon!
if he texts he must have a thing for you. if you communicate to him he will text. if you ignore them, one day he will stop. what do you want to accomplish.
forget that whole texting bullshit. call him and tell him you still love him and take it from there
get f*cked
Hey I’m trying to get my ex bf back too!
Anyways, respond in like, 20 minutes. Act friendly, mysterious, happy and like you aren’t very interested in his life. People want what they can’t have!
Mine please? It’s about the same thing, haha
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im in the same situation. You can talk to him but dont be "too excited" about talking to him ya no? Like my ex textted me a week after christmas and said "i was thinking about you all day, how are you?" and of course im not over him and him saying all that stuff just makes the situation worse. But you just have to remember…he couldnt commit to you, hes the one that caused you two to break up. Just be friendly with him and when he sees you out with other guys and having fun he’ll come back to you, trust me. They always do
Respond, but with simple, detached answers. Like if he simply says "whats up?" say "nothing." leave it open and dont ask about him. he will know that u are there AND he will get the feeling of losing you. It’s like you’ll be the best friend that he is realizing he likes. Just be subtle
good luck! <3
Well… first of all, it depends on the text. If the text is saying something like I’ve been thinking about you a lot and am ready to commit, then of course you don’t ignore it. However, if it says something like How were the Jets yesterday? then of course you don’t respond because it has nothing at all to do with you guys commiting, which is what you mainly want. But always stay on focus because you do not want to be in a relationship that will not lead to any commitment, so pay attention if his text has any signs on attemtpting to commit.
Well, the game you’re playing is "hard-to-get". We all know it, and have all experienced it. So think about how it works. Guys LOVE to chase. It’s our favorite part. So a challenge is good. But if it’s overdone, we will give up hope, and move on. So you have to do it in moderation. The fact that it’s been a year and he still talks to you is a good thing though, it shows after all that time he hasn’t given up hope, so things are looking good. So you may want to play a LITTLE hard to get, but from what i hear, it seems like he already wants you back. Hope this helped
One of the things you need to do if you want to be successful in getting your ex back is having no contact. But I guess there are exceptions to the rule. In your case, I think it is alright to respond to his text messages just so he knows that you are not ignoring him and that there is still a special place in your heart for him. Just make sure that you don’t get all too emotional and attached when you are exchanging messages. As much as possible, keep your conversations brief. And don’t talk about your relationship. I believe that would be best if done face to face.
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