how to get your man back without offering him sex?
i am very much in love with my ex boyfriend. we broke up because he wanted to. i don’t want sex, but he does, and that’s one of the things we didn’t agree with. i’m still very much in love with him, and i really want him back. we had no communication whatsoever, since we broke up, but i still want him to know things about me, and the things that i do. i had been thinking, perhaps, it might make him come back to me. what shall i do?
i don’t want sex because there are lots of risks involved, besides, i am not yet ready for that one. there’s no physical or physiological reason. i just don’t think i like it.
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Oh no. Do yourself a favor and don’t do anything you’ll regret down the road. If you two broke up because you wouldn’t have sex with him, he doesn’t deserve you anyway. I don’t care if you’re 15 or 50. It’s your choice when to have sex, nobody elses. Please understand that this behavior from him now is just a preview of things to come…
No offense honey but a relationship without physical intimacy is just a friendship. Have you considered being just friends with him? Men have needs too.
If he broke up with you because you are not willing to do something he wants, why would he get back together with you if you are still not willing to do what he wants? Why would you want someone who ended a relationship that way?
Can u please tell me whats the prob with sex??
DO u have any prob?
Never stoop to such a level to where you have to willing give into pressure. Learn to avoid such drastic measures, you’re doing what we males consider being a "bitch" when you heed to somebody’s wills. If he can’t see that this isn’t something that you want, then obviously, he needs to sit down and think whether he loves you, or is just doing it for some unknown reason. I know it’s hard but you have to learn to forgive and forget. Forgive him for not treating you the way YOU want to be treated, and forget about his mistake and move on.
if ur being used.. dump it.. if u really want to make him happy.. make’m happy.. he broke up w/ u cuz u wouldn’t give it up, so he was using u like a drug to get the feeling he wanted.. dumped u not caring about your feelings. my best advice it to get a woman to treat u good for a while, or just move on. forget about it, let it go.. and be happy elsewhere w/o him.
It depends on your age,Maturity,and morality.U did not say why u did not want sex.If u are Young ,Below 18,maybe U should wait.in any.young guys may just want sex to feel like grownups. case.Not love!if u are mature ,then u should consider ,other options ,such as more understanding fella.also whether u want to chance having a child ,that may be born without a loving dad!If your morality /religion ,say u would be wrong,U should go with your teachings.If u are just a virgin ,and scared ,sex can be wonderful in feeling,but is NOT love.In any case this fellow u love may not love u!And u may feel even more hurt and alone!talk to a Older unbiased female freind,about this big decision.And sex versus love and pleasure.This Man may be a personu need to Forget.But sex should Be aligned with true feelings From both Partners.