Hi there, just a little bit of advice.

I met a guy at his work i was out with my children, we added each other on a social networking site, i knew him for about a month.
We got chatting on the site, i have been engaged for 7 years with 2 kids, he has been married for 9 years. When we got chatting we got a bit flirty u know. :-)
Things can become outta hand if u know what i mean.

He said he liked me, started developing feelings for me after speaking to me every-night for about a month. I was feeling the same way. We both met in the park he brought his kids i brought mine, they played together an stuff we got talking more.
So we knew each other for like 2 months, i told him i wanted to be friends, he said he would always have feelings for me still but he would still be there for me. I quite liked that!

Anyway he ended up telling his wife about face-book, his wife saw he had a female friend, didn’t like it, deleted his facebook & his number, even got him to stop working where he worked. (that’s where we met)
He said he was falling outta love with his wife, same with me. It had been like that for a while.

So my fella found out too got on the phone to this guy shouting abuse, then his number changed, obviously by his wife.

So anyway i just let it go, 7 months down the line, somebody i knew told me where he lived as i was telling them, they knew him too.
Me & my mate went up there, saw him at his kids school. (this was 7 months after this ordeal) I went up to him to ask what was going on, he looked like a tramp, said he was really depressed, had problems etc… weren’t gonna go back to work. I really couldn’t believe how much he had changed in 7 months.
I explained to him that i still had feelings for him, he said he didnt wanna get back into all this cos there was loads of trouble the last time with his wife. He seems scared of her. He didn’t look happy anway.
I spoke to him for about half an hour, he didn’t wanna know at all, still said it was nice to see me & give me a hug but still didnt wanna know with being depressed & his wife etc.. said he was getting councilling to get better but why did this man tell me he had feelings & everything then just suddenly dissapear. I really had something there for him, but now this has just left me all confused. I wanna see him again but don’t know how to go about it. Any ideas?

Don’t forget all the kids involved were really happy in this situation, there weren’t a problem at the start.
Me & the man ive been with for 7 years anway weren’t happy!

I mean the fella who said he had feelings for me says he did have at the time, so question im askin is do u think he has or ever did have based on what ive told you. I also wanna get back in touch with this guy but dunno what to do??

Sorry about it being so long, any answers much appreciated.
Cheers. :-)


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