why do all GUYS just want to mess around instead of being in a relationship????
Im just recovering from a long relationship we broke up 3 days ago and i was so attached to him like seen him everyday.
Anyways yes i admit i am desperate i feel like i need to TALK to a guy that is some how interested in getting to know me. BUt these three days all the guys i met…….well….. look guys this is how we GURLs know u just want to mess around
-we chat a lil (in person) then get our number, then call us and only talk about "when are we going to hang out?" "when am i going to see u again?"
or
-"im not really a phone person"
-"where did i meet u again?"
some get right to the pont —r u down to mess around ??
my god where are the decent guys please judge me tell me how can i attract a decent guy? is there any?
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=88378144&albumID=940142&imageID=25524208
or comment oh ill put another pic i know not everyone has myspace
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yes i am i feel i also feel like i need to talk to someone in order to keep me from getting back w my ex. and also i was in a relationship but he started treating me like if i was just this gurl he is dating
sk8ter how old r u?
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It might be a good idea to evaluate the "type" of guys you are attracted to. Figure out just what it is that attracts your interest and why.
Chances are, there are plenty of "nice" guys that you encounter all the time that you will not even notice or you will simply dismiss. You know, the ones who seem kinda nervous around you or look at you when they think you don’t see. Talk to them. Some of those are the very ones who will be good in a relationship.
I’m not quite as well-traveled as you are (I haven’t met all guys), so I don’t know.
I thought you were just in a long term relationship. Doesn’t that disprove your theory? There are decent guys. My guess is that you are a dependent type person who really needs to be in a relationship, so you are getting frustrated.
I don’t see what your picture has to do with anything, but you look good if that makes you feel better.
not all guys ase like that.im not.i would be in it for the relationship.just keep lookin
I’m looking for a real relationship and I’m a guy – so they’re out there. Just nobody seems to notice us…
not all guys are like that. some girls don’t want a relationship.
those that do not like to be controlled. do not want a relationship. just do not control your guy. give him his freedom. if he remains loyal to you . you do have him
if he is not loyal. great you do not need a guy lie that around
you also do not need a needy guy. he will wear you out.
freedom is the way to go.
I’d love to be in a relationship or married. I just can’t find a woman who wants more than a good time.
There are many guys like that out there but there are definatly decent guys too. Talk to some people you wouldn’t normally talk to, you’ll be amazed at who you’ll meet.
Join a club not another sport but an actual club because if you see a guy who regularly goes to meetings that meens he can dedicate himself to something other than a "game"
If you want more advice my myspace is
myspace.com/crazythingcalledlife
well we just wanna be chill
and date other girls
come on were guys
were suppose to screw around
but theres probably 1 guy that will fit all ur standards
dude plz make me best answer and ill love u forever
and ever
is there anyway u and i can talk?
A good man is like a rare gem. You just don’t find them everyday or without effort. Be patient. Try searching online.
Trust meh, not all guyz (but most) are a$$es. You’ll find a rite one that wont wanna mess. But thats up to u to find, not us! You may haf the rite guy looking at this question rite now…its up to u to find him!
wait around… and wait more.
don’t make decision on anything too early at these times.
because you might in vulnerable (you said you were desperate) state in these times, and some guys might just take opportunity on it.
be careful then.
the best usually comes to those who awaits.
and be strong too.
you are just going through a tough time right now, so just dont worry bout it and just remember everything is going to be ok at the end, and if things are not ok, well its not the end yet…. anyways about the whole nice guys thing, well it kinda goes both ways, most ppl dont want long term relationships and and those who do rarely meet. finally i believe in the U.S. most ppl look for a hook up and if you are a nice guy and truley romantic they view you as a creepy person… so it sux when the nice guys are viewed upon badly so we just stop tryin and look for the hook up that wat society has shaped men to be like.go to europe its much different
oh we are out there all right we are OUT there standing in the rain. nice guys finish last i should know, i’m one of the last of the nice guys!! i open car doors, say please and thank you and "pardon my language ma’am" , don’t say pull my finger if i am gonna pass wind, all the old fashioned stuff. don’t seem girls go for that any more, do they? if so why am i single and the local crack dealer has a different girl every week? i know it’s impolite, but how old are you and how old of a guy would you consider talking to? how can i give you my e-mail without posting it here for the nuts of the world to see? go to my profile and send me some info if you want a contact. you are very beautiful by the way. have a wonderful night/morning.
I hate most guys… They make good guys (like myself and few of my friends) look bad…
I try to be the best person I can everyday. Sorry to hear about and bad experiences u have had with any jerk… Feel free to contact me for any advice or for any additiona questions concerning anything, I’ll be glad to answer and help you…
God bless you and i wish you the best of luck in life
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